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I don't really think it's cheating. But I wouldn't do that sort of thing anyway...
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Well, that's just the way I view it. See, from my point of view, when you're with someone, and you care about that person very much, thinking about another person of the opposite sex, and undressing them in your mind
is cheating in a way. It expresses a desire to
be with someone other than the person you're already with. It also would make remaining faithful to the person you're currently with, increasingly more dificult, as the more you undress said person, the less likely you may be to restrain yourself from doing so in real life.
The way I see it is, if you're dating someone or if you're married to someone, that should be the only person you think about in that way. Perhaps it's an unrealistic view for some people, but that's the way I see it. I would
never think of another woman in that way, because I love my girlfriend very much, and I
know that she's the one I'm going to spend the rest of my life with.