When someone approches their grading, they are split up and prepared with a seperate instructor. (Let's call her Jill) I am very close to grading, i've trained with her before, so i wondered if i was doing so again this week to prepare for my grading.

So, i walk up to her husband and ask who i'm training with.

Me: "Hi, um i just wondered if i'm training with Jill"?

Him: Jill doesn't want to train with you.

Me: "What!?

Him:...