love help..

the Exoddus · #1 03-22-2007, 03:52 AM

im stuck in a hard spot... i have 2 girls who like me but i know i cant be with them bolth and i dont want to hert any of them... what the hell do i do??!!

Jordan · #2 03-22-2007, 07:27 AM

Screw 'em, women are unpredictable.

XD

OddjobAbe · #3 03-22-2007, 07:46 AM

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im stuck in a hard spot... i have 2 girls who like me but i know i cant be with them bolth and i dont want to hert any of them... what the hell do i do??!!

Well, do you love either of them? If not, don't bother, it would not be right to be seeing someone you don't love unless it was just a friendly relationship, and not serious.

It is just my opinion that it wouldn't be right, it's my point of view that it's immoral, but in the end, it's your choice.

Godlesswanderer · #4 03-22-2007, 09:07 AM

Technically, love doesn't always factor into it when you're starting a relationship. You may just really like the person at first and then end up in love.

Anyways, go with the one you really like. With the one that you don't like, tell her. There's nothing worse than getting into a relationship and finding out the other person doesn't feel the same. It will hurt her when you tell her but you'll be saving her from any more hurt.

Edit:

Wooo, my 1,234th post

Zerox · #5 03-22-2007, 10:18 AM

There's not alot I can say that hasn't already been said here, apart from act yourself infront of them. Don't try to treat them too differently or anything.

snuzi · #6 03-22-2007, 10:29 AM

You honestly shouldn't worry about hurting either of them. If you like one of them enough, go after them. If you don't like either of them, don't. It's as simple as that. Don't feel obligated to return the feelings just because you're afraid to hurt someone. It'll eventually end up hurting you all, plus it'd be completely pointless

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the Exoddus · #7 03-22-2007, 10:38 AM

i gues your right...but the problm is im alredy in a relationship and i like bolth of them...

snuzi · #8 03-22-2007, 10:45 AM

Heh, kids.

Well, answer me this: do you care enough about the person you're currently with to ignore your feelings towards the other two, or do you feel that your feelings towards the other two are stronger than your feelings towards the girl you are currently with?

looney-bin · #9 03-22-2007, 01:47 PM

Threesome!

On a serious note, just go with the one you trust more.

***Wil*** · #10 03-22-2007, 02:39 PM

Erm, if you’re already in a relationship, perhaps you should consider the feelings of your significant other first of all and politely decline these other two individuals. You may have to hurt them in the short term, but they should appreciate your honesty in the long term.

Paramite of War · #11 03-22-2007, 02:43 PM

I say if you like the person your with then ignore them. But if not you can date all three of them if you want, you ain't married dude. I'm serious too your about 14 right? Just do what ever you want to.

Patrick Vykkers · #12 03-22-2007, 03:02 PM

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im stuck in a hard spot... i have 2 girls who like me but i know i cant be with them bolth and i dont want to hert any of them... what the hell do i do??!!

Become celibate. That way you get the best.. of.. gee, what do you get?

mitsur · #13 03-22-2007, 04:10 PM

Go with whoever you like the most, and tell the other two they should go kill themselves.

Or, you could be boringly kind and soften the blow by saying 'It's not working out, we should go see other people'.

If I could do whatever I wanted with no consequences? I'd probably try to play all three at once, then make up a sob story to make them feel bad. If all else failed, I'd at least have a chance for break-up sex.

Oh well.

skillya_glowi · #14 03-22-2007, 04:25 PM

Hey, wow. That's a pickle. If you already have a girl, and two chicks are chasing after you, you're just going to have to be firm and say no. I mean, what else are you gonna do? But like everyone else said, it's all about prioritizing. If you like your girlfriend, stay with her. If you like one of the girls, break up with your girlfriend and go out with her. Pretty much yeah.

12345abe · #15 03-22-2007, 11:58 PM

While you have TWO girlfriends, I can't seem to find ONE!!!So I guess I can't help you much with this.

snuzi · #16 03-23-2007, 12:02 AM

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But if not you can date all three of them if you want, you ain't married dude. I'm serious too your about 14 right? Just do what ever you want to.

So, you're saying that he should date all three at once? God, if that isn't the worst advice I've heard, I don't know what is. Cheating will only bring about problems. And cheating with three people at once, would be a disaster.

I'll only reiterate what I've said before, and what just about everyone has said in this thread: go after whomever you like the most. In my opinion, it should be the one that relates most to you, as those relationships are the ones that work out best.

Fluid · #17 03-23-2007, 12:05 AM

u casanova...

anyhow.... blow them both off.... if you don't like them.

if you like.... well..l. listen to godless's advice...

12345abe · #18 03-23-2007, 12:07 AM

Tell them to fight for you!!!(like i said:hehe don't do this please,cuz if you do, they will all be pretty punched out, and you'll have to take care of the one that wins, and more, and more, and it's all a big bore...unless its a flawless victory!!! DONT DO THAT!)

Fluid · #19 03-23-2007, 12:17 AM

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Tell them to fight for you!!!(like i said:hehe don't do this please,cuz if you do, they will all be pretty punched out, and you'll have to take care of the one that wins, and more, and more, and it's all a big bore...unless its a flawless victory!!! DONT DO THAT!)

or he can just get..

screw you asshole... you're not worth of it...

12345abe · #20 03-23-2007, 01:12 AM

I thought of that too hehe!So he better doesn't do that

the Exoddus · #21 03-23-2007, 05:04 AM

i go from wanting a girl to not wanting one at all wtf1 lol but i resolved it i think..? but i can try...at least i know i have a nother person who dose like me and no im 13

OANST · #22 03-26-2007, 02:41 PM

Go with the one who is willing to put out. That's always been my strategy.

mitsur · #23 03-26-2007, 09:27 PM

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u casanova...

anyhow.... blow them both off.... if you don't like them.

if you like.... well..l. listen to godless's advice...

For some reason, this guy reminds me of Iconoclast. Y'know, because of all the trail-offs he puts at the end of all his sentences.

Anyway, back to topic.

Like I said before, go with whoever you like the most, and you'll have the smallest chance of getting disappointed in the end.

On a side note, how come you've got 3 girls going for you at 13? Seems a bit strange to me.

Havoc · #24 03-27-2007, 02:50 AM

Threesome pops to mind here... but if you're not that kind of guy then just go with the girl you happen to love back (you're not telling me 2 girl you already loved now love you back, you lucky biatch

). And if you don't love either of them, them don't go with it. It's fun for the first two weeks but it gets pretty boring after that if the spark isn't there.

Tiger

looney-bin · #25 03-27-2007, 06:18 AM

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Go with the one who is willing to put out. That's always been my strategy.

Quoted for truth.

Leto · #26 03-27-2007, 09:00 PM

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Go with the one who is willing to put out. That's always been my strategy.

I thought your strategy was going with old women who have one bugeye, a whispy moustache who carries bags full of string.

As for ur problem lol, I wouldn't worry about it. A round of KAPLAK should remedy the situation in an entertaining fashion.

Mojo · #27 03-28-2007, 06:42 AM

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Erm, if you’re already in a relationship, perhaps you should consider the feelings of your significant other first of all and politely decline these other two individuals. You may have to hurt them in the short term, but they should appreciate your honesty in the long term.

Significant other? FFS, he's just a fcking kid! Come on!

Exoddus, here's a lesson: Don't cheat on your girl. It WILL come back to haunt you. Not that I know, seriously, my love life is like the desert, devoid of anything interesting. But I've heard stories...

Other than that, you call 3 girls wanting you a problem?!

Sheesh... Some guys have all the luck!

snuzi · #28 03-28-2007, 10:49 AM

Yes, cheating's definitely not a good idea. Not only will it damage your relationship with your girfriend as well as the other girl involved, but it will also give you a bad reputation among women for awhile. So, you'll pretty much screw over your current relationship, as well as some relationships in the future. Don't do it.

OANST · #29 03-28-2007, 06:00 PM

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I thought your strategy was going with old women who have one bugeye, a whispy moustache who carries bags full of string.

As for ur problem lol, I wouldn't worry about it. A round of KAPLAK should remedy the situation in an entertaining fashion.

That used to be my strategy. However, it's become increasingly difficult to find women like your mom. OH! BURNALICIOUS! CALL THE FIRE DEPARTMENT! THAT BURN LOOKS SERIOUS.

On a serious note, your mothers an ugly whore.

Alf Shall Rise · #30 03-29-2007, 02:28 PM

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For some reason, this guy reminds me of Iconoclast. Y'know, because of all the trail-offs he puts at the end of all his sentences.

Sorry, but I have to comment on this, Fluid also reminds me of Iconoclast because he's almost negative about everything.