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Originally posted by Death
I totally agree with you on the part about cosplay. For instance when Reese Charles offered to show everyone how he looks, he just got ridiculed, now I have to say, that is a pretty crap reward for taking the time to build up the courage that it must've taken to put a photo like that on here.
I think he said somewhere that he doesn't always look like that, and his "alienist" style was like a partying thing. Even after saying this, he was just told that he was trying to get out of it and avoid being laughed at. I only have vague memories of it, but I think that's how it went.
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Umm... nobody laughed at him.... we criticsed him even before he put that pic up...
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From what I can see, (I am going to analise now) there was a constant battle going on in his head. He couldn't decide whether to stay and put up with the flak, so that he could stay with his freinds here, or whether he should just leave and move on. He was prioritising his freinds over himself, and was prepared to stay that extra bit longer for his freinds, and put up with the abuse as long as possible.
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Can i ask a question, who was his friend? he just joined and started criticising the forum and stuff. If he just took the time to suggest instead of criticising most ppl would prolly liked him.
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Now I think what he did was quite honorable, but that's not why I mentioned it. The reason I mentioned it was because it is a perfect example of what is wrong with this forum. Every time I tried to apologise for getting stuff wrong here, I got stones thrown at me for it, yet every time I just refused to apologise for getting stuff wrong here, I get stones thrown at me for it. I can't apologise because it's a "fiendish ploy to avoid banning", and I can't refrain from apologising because that's "downright cowardly and inconsiderate".
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Well i got an answer for that, its because were such a small forum. Everybody practicallys knows everybody here... its like a family. It takes time to build up trust and patience for each other. When some nobody joins the forum and criticise everyone and causes all this arguments. We cant trust this person so quickly. Well the apology part... we just dont think its a genuine apology.
EG: Guy joins a forum, 1 day later he starts causing all these arguements and challenge everyone. 3 days later he apologise.
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There are a certain bunch of members here who have a serious problem with the above. They won't accept apologies, and would rather rub salt into an open wound by hurling abuse in the actual apology thread.
All of us know who these dickheads are, and they are a cancer on everyones enjoyment.
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Well your prolly hinting me or something, since one of the person you have the most arguement is. Anyways, its that i dont really like you, you join the forum then cause all these arguements. After 1 month you get a custom title and demand moderator power. Too quick for me personally.
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So there's your problem, and it's solution is banning. There will always be some bad people, but that doesn't mean that we have to put up with them.
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This is the worse statement i have ever heard. How can you ban a person if his a dickhead. Thats just very subjective and based on personal emotions. Where did freedom of speech go? if you just ban someone becoz u hate them its totally not right. You can only ban someone if they disobeyed the rules.
YES WE DO HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THEM, they have as much right as you staying on the forum. What if someone hates you and bans you? you dont feel good eh?
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