I need advice please help

Oddworld Master · #1 04-22-2002, 06:03 PM

ok 2 things

1st i need major help. u see i have a lot of trouble getting boys to go out with me can any 1 give me some advice?

2nd have any of u asked someone out, the person said no and u were totaly embaresed in front of all your friends???

the second thing just happened to me today i asked a guy named adam out (he's really sweet and hot) any way i got put down in front of my class now thats embarising

he he he

Jacob · #2 04-22-2002, 07:54 PM

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1st i need major help. u see i have a lot of trouble getting boys to go out with me can any 1 give me some advice?

Lads are arseholes really...but make yourself look...nice. You have to be quite pretty and have a nice personality. Also flirt alot and go to social gatherings (Piss-ups) How old are you?

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2nd have any of u asked someone out, the person said no and u were totaly embaresed in front of all your friends???

I usually ask ppl out wen i am slaughtered....that way, i can blame it on the drink if i get turned down. And if you mean 'Turned down' when you said 'Put down' then dont worry, it happens to everyone. Depends what age you are though then the circumstances differ.

Joe the Intern · #3 04-22-2002, 08:32 PM

Advice: ask a friend, and don't make useless topics like these.

Majic · #4 04-22-2002, 08:52 PM

Much like Joe said, your friends can actualy be a big help... Normaly theres one person that knows all the crushes and junk, but don't rush and crap stuff up, thats not good..... And don't think it'll last forever and they are "the one", highly doubtful in my opinion.... And Crhis, I'm actualy starting to like you, don't start with all this lads bullshit again

Jacob · #5 04-22-2002, 08:59 PM

Abit harsh Joe. Come on, she has jus been turned down by a lad infront of her friends. She must of felt terrible. And besides, this is off topic.

Jacob · #6 04-22-2002, 09:06 PM

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And Crhis, I'm actualy starting to like you, don't start with all this lads bullshit again

lol, rite. Old habits die hard and stuff. Should of edited i kn0, but my edit button crash's the comp.

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Normaly theres one person that knows all the crushes and junk

Depends what status you are (Thats what i found anyway.)

Majic · #7 04-23-2002, 11:41 PM

Hm, unfortunately its usualy the "cool" crowd that consists of anyone that is somehow decided as "cool", mainly the bitch people that think the're all that. School is so much like society, social classes and all

Whistling kettle · #8 04-24-2002, 04:32 AM

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Originally posted by Oddworld Master
ok 2 things

1st i need major help. u see i have a lot of trouble getting boys to go out with me can any 1 give me some advice?

Just be yourself.

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2nd have any of u asked someone out, the person said no and u were totaly embaresed in front of all your friends???

the second thing just happened to me today i asked a guy named adam out (he's really sweet and hot) any way i got put down in front of my class now thats embarising he he he

No, that never happend to me. It's terrible........

Jacob · #9 04-24-2002, 05:25 PM

I hate my skool. too gossipy and Rumoury, and the novelty of being the Queen of Gossip/Rumourz is now wearing off...pooness

Roy · #10 04-24-2002, 10:02 PM

Is Jacob a girl?

My friend asked a girl for a hug in front of the whole class

Majic · #11 04-24-2002, 10:04 PM

Same here. Mcuh to my delight people are caring less and less now though. Now since all the relationships have pretty much disbanded, and people are thinking less of the gossipers, most of the once "cool" kids are starting to hang out with other people, cause basicly all they do is make people mad most of the time. I mean, most people just don't watn their relationship status thrown about all grade levels, do they? Gossipers get what they deserve...

EDIT: Apparently you posted while I was typing. Chris is not a girl, hes a guy. And whats so bad about a hug. Its kinda immature if you think thats somehow wierd

Now when one of the "cool" kids had a make-out party, it was very disturbing to hear about

Thats the kinda thing to go "WHAT THE HELL?!?!?!" at.... Ehehehe...

VykerSawBones · #12 04-24-2002, 10:29 PM

OFFTOPIC. and im only 10 but i like 1 girl in my class. But i never talk to her. Just act normal and you will have a Boyfriend

Majic · #13 04-24-2002, 11:53 PM

Dude, I have some advice for you. Make yourself noticable, and create a decent representaion... And then when your older, if shes not taken or heartbroken, the keywords are be nice, curtious, and flirt.....

CitizenKane · #14 04-26-2002, 07:20 PM

Know this of me: I'm always honest. Skin. Show a classless nimiety of skin, lots of cleavage, legs, back, stomach, everything. A little lip gloss and a revealing dress do more for your social life then you think; humans are disgusting, remember that. They don't care about your personality, really, as long as you're ready to open your legs. That's all it's about, actually.

Jacob · #15 04-26-2002, 08:08 PM

"Skin. (1)Show a classless nimiety of skin, (2)lots of cleavage, legs, back, stomach, everything.(3) A little lip gloss and a revealing dress do more for your social life then you think;(4) humans are disgusting, remember that.(5) They don't care about your personality, really, (6)as long as you're ready to open your legs. That's all it's about, actually."

(1) - Skin would be a good idea. However we dont know what she looks like or what her personality is like do we?

(2) - See above.

(3) - Lip gloss yes, revealing dress...no. She will possibly get classed as a Slut. And see (1).

(4) - This is oh-so-true!! Well...some of them are disgusting.

(5) - Some do. I go for personality. Aswell as looks.

(6) - Again, it depends what she loox like and what her personality is like. Also...she may get classed as a slut. Like you sed, humans are disgusting...they would just use her for a quick one.

CitizenKane · #16 04-26-2002, 11:13 PM

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(3) - Lip gloss yes, revealing dress...no. She will possibly get classed as a Slut. And see (1).

That's the point, distressingly enough.

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(4) - This is oh-so-true!! Well...some of them are disgusting.

There are no exceptions. None.

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...they would just use her for a quick one.

She said she wanted help getting men. Conditions and afterthoughts mean little in the realm of humanity.

At any rate, back to the old violin.

Majic · #17 04-27-2002, 02:14 AM

Actualy, i would storngly be against getting a guy using sex appeal or otherwise. Because then its doomed to failure, infatuation, because they wouldnt be liking you for who you are. You seem cool enough here, just be like that in your class in such. It'll turn out how it should without, um, skin...

Jacob · #18 04-27-2002, 09:47 AM

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There are no exceptions. None.

Yes there is...me and my best mate.

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That's the point, distressingly enough.

And what is she's a geek (I aint saying that u r...just what if u r) Kane, imagine one of the BIGGEST geeks in ur skool dressing and acting like u had jus' told her to dress and act...i think thats more distressing.

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You seem cool enough here, just be like that in your class in such

Yeh...just dont talk about video games unless they bring it up. Flirt...do that. Ermm...it depends how old you are...how old are you?

Surfacing · #19 04-27-2002, 09:50 AM

My advice

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Originally posted by Oddworld Master
ok 2 things

2nd have any of u asked someone out, the person said no and u were totaly embaresed in front of all your friends???

Actual that happened to me once. But then the girl that i had asked apologized to me later cause she said she got embarrsed infront of all her friends, so then she told me yes

My advice is don't ask them in front of there friends.

CitizenKane · #20 04-27-2002, 10:30 PM

I curse and ban quoting for myself, it takes too much time.

Jacob, you're an evil, greedy, self serving, scum-sucking varruca of a man. Just like everyone else, including myself.

Majic, all things are doomed to failure.

Jacob · #21 04-28-2002, 10:15 AM

"Jacob, you're an evil, greedy, self serving, scum-sucking varruca of a man. Just like everyone else, including myself."

(My quote doesn't work...sorri!!)

Its true, i am evil, greedy, (Not self serving...i have others who serve me), i aint scum-sucking either. Thats gross. And i aint a varucca of a man...i am a rash. You think im gone but then i jus' re-appear. I am also shallow. Only consoling someone if they'r attractive. But i would never use a woman for sex. Maybe if it was a 1 night stand and she had the same thing in mind. But if she wanted a commitment i would either tell her i dont want a relationship right now or go out with her. I wouldn't string her along.

pinkgoth2 · #22 04-28-2002, 01:40 PM

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Originally posted by Jacob
Its true, i am evil, greedy, (Not self serving...i have others who serve me), i aint scum-sucking either. Thats gross. And i aint a varucca of a man...i am a rash. You think im gone but then i jus' re-appear. (...)

Muhahahaha. Jacob. Let's take over this place together. Maybe we're the only two with attitudes like Vykkers *insert evil cackle here* ;)

- TyA

Jacob · #23 04-28-2002, 04:40 PM

Yes...lets do that...Oooooohhh-Ooooohhh(Scary noises, just without the effort.)

I'd rather kill people who hurt my heart and shtuff *Dabs eye*
Ooooooo-ooooooo-oooooooHH!! (Scary noise, but without the scaryness.)

Edit: Cant believe this...my sarcasm was cut out of that msg...it was good sarcasm aswell!!

pinkgoth2 · #24 04-28-2002, 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by Jacob
Yes...lets do that...Oooooohhh-Ooooohhh <
I'd rather kill people who hurt my heart and shtuff *Dabs eye*
Ooooooo-ooooooo-oooooooHH!! <

This gives the topic title a whole new meaning... *laughs*

- Neike / TyA

BiddaMD · #25 05-05-2002, 08:53 PM

This girl doesn't need help. Especially from people who don't know what they're talking about. It really doesn't matter if you have guys liking you all the time....as long as you can find a dude that really does. Cause...ya know being pretty and shit is only fakeness, and fakeness is not what you want in anything, especially relationships. My advice, just let things chill and let fate give you what you are looking for. Take it from a guy who knows a thing or two about life.

Jacob · #26 05-06-2002, 05:26 PM

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It really doesn't matter if you have guys liking you all the time

It helps.

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as long as you can find a dude that really does

True.

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Cause...ya know being pretty and shit is only fakeness, and fakeness is not what you want in anything, especially relationships

Prettyness helps.

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My advice, just let things chill and let fate give you what you are looking for

And if fate deals her a obeise, bald guy who dress' up as a clown and touches little children...she should be ok with that?

BiddaMD · #27 05-06-2002, 10:17 PM

If she knows what she's looking for...and I expect that it isn't a blad fat guy..she'll find it. Why waste time doing things to get a guy to like you for what you're not.

Majic · #28 05-06-2002, 10:27 PM

Bidda, you seem to have good views to a radical extreme. True, its stupid to fake stuff, but having people like you gives self esteem (usualy...) and can help your life and give some people that reason to live. We shouldnt really tell her how to act, its best to be yourself. So yea, yea, I'm just rambling.

Jacob · #29 05-07-2002, 07:32 PM

She should make herself look nice. Although that takes a big step if you have low self asteem such as myself it really pays off when people say you look nicer.

pinkgoth2 · #30 05-08-2002, 12:04 PM

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Originally posted by Oddworld Master
[...] 2nd have any of u asked someone out, the person said no and u were totaly embaresed in front of all your friends???

the second thing just happened to me today i asked a guy named adam out (he's really sweet and hot) any way i got put down in front of my class now thats embarising :blush: he he he

O.M., you know, maybe if you think about how much the people in your class are going to remember the situation in 3 years (namely not at all) that may help you. I barely get embarassed, because I know most people forget what happened in a matter of 5mins-24hours. So why do them the 'favor' of being embarassed?

Why am I so sure? Well... have you ever laughed about someone who did something silly or for other reasons...? You probably have, but, do you really still remember? If you do, do you care? *smile*

When I was 13, I fell in love with a guy that was, like 18. His name was Mattias (Mathew). I remember I stood up in the bus after a truth and dare and yelled it through the bus that I loved him. Everyone laughed, of course, but what was most important to me was that Mattias didn't. He still told me that wouldn't work out, but at least he realised he couldn't just be cruel by thinking me to be a sad idiot.

Of course, if Adam laughed at you or seemed to take pleasure out of you being embarrassed - why bother about him? In that case he's a yerk.

And I'd like to attempt a variety at Bidda's philosophy: Nothing is important unless you want it to be. *g*

Another thing, O.M. : Who's to say you're not in dream, that life is a dream? It may not be real... ;) [okay, that's going a bit far with the interpreting, but no one's going to stop you from thinking that to yourself if it helps to built self-esteem (*could word another theory, but already has done so indirectly and does not want to start a larger argument based on beliefs...*)]

- TyA