Would you rather choose a horse or something in that way...?

Against all odds, we have a long-running thread in which to discuss that. Keep it there.

I am a virgin. I'm just wholly uninterested in sex (to be honest, I can't personally understand the appeal beyond biology), I reckon I might have no sex drive or at least a severely diminished one. I'm quite happy being asexual (that's as in not sexual, not as in self-spawning...although that too). Even if I were so inclined, social phobia/borderline agoraphobia seems like an awfully big hurdle to overtake.

You can't really get most STI's from kissing, let alone sharing bottles. If she just had genital herpes on her genitals you could've made out all day and caught nothing. But if she had genital herpes on her mouth, then yeah you'd be at high risk of catching anything - any place that has a herpes lesion is where the virus is. Same goes for most other STIs, especially topical-type ones like herpes and warts. Everything else is very unlikely to pass via saliva. Unless they, say, blow someone with it, take a swig of whatever, then you immediately drink that. Or if someone scratched their lesion and then touched an exposed part of your body (like a cut or your eye)...I think there's an episode of House like that.

Hay guyz, it's fun to fuck. Endorphin rushes and emotional fulfillment make for a pretty good time.

Of course, if your natural response is primal disgust and emotional trauma you're not really getting anything out of it.

Word up.

Sucks for the people who can't take the time/responsibility to enjoy it.

I view sex as the greatest expression of love, hence why I'd only have sex with someone I truly cared about. Without the love it'd be as meaningless for me as it looks like it is for you.

Do we differ in the idea of sex being significant, or the existence of eternal monogamous love? I don't shack up with legions of girls I don't care about. And I also don't subscribe to the idea that there's one true love I need to wait to marry before I can enjoy a nice night of rompin. To characterize my experiences as "meaningless" doesn't quite seem justified. Who are you to assume my emotional appreciation of the act?

I meant the asexuals.

I'm very sorry if I insulted you, it was very unclear who I was aiming that comment at.

I ORGAZIM ON THINGS

Asexuals can love, and sex would not be meaningless. Just horrifying and unpleasant, like anyone else having sex with a gender they are not attracted to.

I myself am not asexual

Being bi-or rather pansexual I am in no position to comment on this as I can't imagine sexual attraction to a single gender in the same sense.

Drainpipes, then.

Ouch, that's quite an assumption. I don't fault you for it, though. It's very difficult for a person to intrinsically understand the intangible values of another person when they're so strongly opposing. We judge and understand people by projecting ourselves on to them and thus inadvertently assume the unverifiable elements like feelings and faith are the same as our own. The stark difference between sexuality and asexuality causes a lot of confusion, especially since sexuality is the norm (it would have to be, else our species would cease to be), and the natural inability to understand the motivations tends to be rationalized into the assumption that the only cause for difference is that the other is somehow deficient or weak (take the general assumptions about the homeless, for example) and aren't just naturally different.

One can intellectually understand these things. I can certainly understand the want to be sexual from an intellectual point of view, I know that its not a ridiculous act nor a revolting thing to do and I'm not a better person for not being asexual. I'm not a worse person, either, I'm just different. All the same, I can't emotionally understand the motivation as the desire is lacking in me. Try as I might, I cannot feel that want just as one who is sexual cannot not feel that want. Those values are inherent in us. Kind of like faith, either you have it or you don't - and there's no way to explain to the other half what its really like to be what you are. Can one truly understand what its like to have been born deaf and never know the sound and thus cannot 'miss' it? A large number of deaf people are incredibly happy the way they are and cannot imagine life wanting to hear sounds.

The world is as interesting as it is because everyone is different and feels things than other people will never feel. Perhaps it does suck that I won't know how it feels to be fulfilled by sex. However, it sucks for you that you won't know how it feels to have no desire or want for sex and its own fulfillment. But I wouldn't have it any other way, I'm happy being who I am :)

Hey, I like the new gal.

Ah, I get it. I sort of just jumped in without reading the rest of the thread because I'm a lazy bastard. Except when it comes to pleasuring Peter. Mmmmmhmmmmmmmm.

On the bright side, anything beats involuntary celibacy.

Better involuntary celibacy than involuntary sex.

Naked people are gross.
That's my contribution.

Also ArtemisPanthar is a quality poster.

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Or were you answering the question in the title? If so, I always told myself that if I wasn't sad or pedantic I'd get more.

if i wasnt covered in shit for the majority of the time and stunk of cattle i'd probably get more as well.
i do shower. i just like cow smell.

yeeeeea I'm a virgin....but I can't say I've never done OR got anything XD

I'm just wondering, but why does the person who made this thread want to know if were virgins or not???

That answer your question?

OT: yes.

Maybe several reasons. But the biggest was stated by Mr. Odd.

Emily was being selfish last night. Just because I went to see my friends at the pub, she refused. I'll have the last laugh, though - I've put vinegar in her coffee. I cannot wait to see her drink it. Call it childish, but I must retaliate in some way or another to selfishness.

What if her enforced celibacy was actually retaliation for your selfishness in going to the pub without her?

I offered, but she didn't want to. She was being a bit maungy actually. She said that she would rather stay at home, and that I shouldn't go see my friends, even if we weren't going to do anything special at home. Bollocks to her, I said.

What if her enforced celibacy was actually retaliation for your selfishness in going to the pub and not keeping her company?

I hardly ever go to the pub. I deserved I drink after all this chuffing time.

Clearly Emily didn't agree.


I'm not saying she wasn't being selfish. It's just that you have no claim to the moral high ground here.