Sex toys

OANST · #1 11-23-2005, 12:37 PM

Has anyone ever noticed that noone really thinks twice about a girl owning a vibrator or even a dildo but the very idea of a guy owning a pocket pussy is disgusting? The thing that I find really strange about this is the fact society views men as the more sexually deviant than the woman. Am I alone in finding this strange?

Havoc · #2 11-23-2005, 01:35 PM

There are such things as a pocket pussy? Seriously, I never heard of those O.o.

But yea, men are frowned upon when having a toy where women arn't realy a surprise anymore. Don't be mistaken tho, women often find it disgusting themselfs if they find out a friend uses a dildo or whatever.

Also, in all fairness, men pretty much have all they need right there to get some pleasure, where a women usualy needs a bit more. So yea, that might have something to do with it.

***Nate*** · #3 11-23-2005, 04:22 PM

Well if a woman has a sex toy it shows she's putting herself in charge and doesn't need a man. If a guy has a sex toy the assumption is he's given up and can't get a woman.

AquaticAmbi · #4 11-23-2005, 07:47 PM

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There are such things as a pocket pussy? Seriously, I never heard of those O.o.

Yes, purples ones, in fact! Purple pocket pussies. Yay? Hah, a friend once (or hundreds of times) semi-jokingly asked me to get one for him.

Anyway, I don't think there's really anything wrong with anyone of either sex using if they're into that.

And uh.. Havoc, I just have to comment; I find the "feline sex toys" or something like that shown on the Tiger's Den site kind of... strange. No offensey. To each his own, ya know?

Joshy · #5 11-23-2005, 08:14 PM

Yes there is something called a pocketpussy. There is even a promotional video on the site, but that would be inappropriate. Ironic really.

***Nate*** · #6 11-24-2005, 10:50 AM

All of those worry me. But the Non Descript one most of all.

Ambi, didn't your friend think about how wierd it would look for a girl to buy a pocket pussy?

Havoc · #7 11-24-2005, 11:52 AM

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And uh.. Havoc, I just have to comment; I find the "feline sex toys" or something like that shown on the Tiger's Den site kind of... strange. No offensey. To each his own, ya know?

Can't blame you for finding it a tad strange. But the site is kinda dedicated to a not everyday subject and there are people who like toys like that, so I figured I would just put them up there.

And no offence taken, I realized when I put that link in my siggy that I would get comments on it sooner or later.

Dino · #8 11-25-2005, 03:13 PM

I like the idea of a nondescript orifice. It makes me giggle.

Look at the emotive language on that site... it's clearly written so that men visiting the site think with their penis instead of their wallet.

TheRaisin · #9 11-25-2005, 04:32 PM

I don't find the idea of someone having a sex toy disturbing, but to actually make it look like a detached human part is really rather frightening. What kind of guy would find a disembodied anus an arousing thing to put his willy into? I'll wager there's some kind of freaky neurological disorder associated with wanting to have sex with disembodied orifices.

metroixer · #10 11-25-2005, 04:40 PM

I am officialy skarred out of my young 13 year old mind. Who in god's name enjoys that? I-I mean that seems wrong man! The descriptions scare me to. Not trying to be immature by the way.

Joshy · #11 11-25-2005, 05:32 PM

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I don't find the idea of someone having a sex toy disturbing, but to actually make it look like a detached human part is really rather frightening. What kind of guy would find a disembodied anus an arousing thing to put his willy into? I'll wager there's some kind of freaky neurological disorder associated with wanting to have sex with disembodied orifices.

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I am officialy skarred out of my young 13 year old mind. Who in god's name enjoys that? I-I mean that seems wrong man! The descriptions scare me to. Not trying to be immature by the way.

Thats the question of the topic, how come people find it strange about a pocket pussy when a woman can have a dildo.

***Nate*** · #12 11-25-2005, 06:24 PM

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I'll wager there's some kind of freaky neurological disorder associated with wanting to have sex with disembodied orifices.

Well there probably are people out there with a fetish for fake over real but I reckon the target market for these are men who can't get any sweet laydee. Or possibly closeted transvestites who want to fool their boyfriends in the dark.

Use your imagination.

TheRaisin · #13 11-25-2005, 11:13 PM

Joshy, if a dildo were made to look just like a penis, I would find that disturbing, just as I find it disturbing that there are sex toys for males made to look like vaginas. Or worse.

Havoc · #14 11-26-2005, 06:12 AM

In short, there's a market for everything. With so many people on this earth, there are bound to be a few thousand or million that are into buying a certain product.

If I were to open an online store where I sell used gum wrappers... I'm sure I'l sell at least ten :P. Just to name a crazy example.

Dino · #15 11-26-2005, 06:39 AM

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Joshy, if a dildo were made to look just like a penis, I would find that disturbing, just as I find it disturbing that there are sex toys for males made to look like vaginas. Or worse.

Lol, you're so hopelessly conservative.

Honestly I couldn't care less what it's shaped like and I don't think you should. I don't see how it's disturbing that it looks like the real thing. Surely the whole point is for the experience to be as realistic as possible?

And why is it "Or worse"? Why is it worse for a man to have a preference for a mouth or an anus? Are you saying that gay/anal/oral sex is worse than straight sex?

Havoc · #16 11-26-2005, 07:56 AM

I don't realy see how sex toys are disturbing in the first place. Unless you're talking about some blow up doll that looks like a 7 year old...

They are part of everyday life, I think. Biggest part of the population, im sure, has used or owns a sex toy. And saying that owning a sex toy makes you some mental ill person is going a little out of line if you ask me :S.

TheRaisin · #17 11-26-2005, 01:04 PM

I never said that having a sex toy means you're mentally ill. If you'll direct your attention to this:

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I'll wager there's some kind of freaky neurological disorder associated with wanting to have sex with disembodied orifices.

Anyway. All right. I have nothing against sex toys, and I wouldn't judge anyone who uses them. But I personally don't see what the allure is with those pocket pussies or fleshlights or whatever they're called. I'd rather do it with my hand than with a plastic vagina in a tube.

Leto · #18 11-26-2005, 01:38 PM

So, you'd have sex with a disembodied hand then?

Joshy · #19 11-26-2005, 02:10 PM

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Anyway. All right. I have nothing against sex toys, and I wouldn't judge anyone who uses them. But I personally don't see what the allure is with those pocket pussies or fleshlights or whatever they're called. I'd rather do it with my hand than with a plastic vagina in a tube.

You're falling into the trap of the question that is raised, why do you find it so disgusting about male sex toys yet no disagreement to female sex toys? Why is a pocket pussy more disgusting then a dildo?

And your implying of doing it by hand instead of those pocket pussy can be applied to female sex toys, not using a dildo but by hand.

Joshy · #20 11-26-2005, 02:11 PM

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Joshy, if a dildo were made to look just like a penis, I would find that disturbing, just as I find it disturbing that there are sex toys for males made to look like vaginas. Or worse.

And yes, there is plenty of dildos that are made to look like a penis.

Rich · #21 11-26-2005, 03:02 PM

Edit button I say, you should know better Joshy. Ollypops says I should warn you.

I'm amused by the sex toys, to each his own, but I prefer my Rexy.

Dino · #22 11-26-2005, 03:26 PM

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I never said that having a sex toy means you're mentally ill. If you'll direct your attention to this:

Neurological disorder = mental illness. Therefore you implied it, and made an assosciation.

And it's not disembodied. It never had a body to start with!

TheRaisin · #23 11-26-2005, 03:59 PM

It's the fact that it's made to look like a disembodied human orifice that I find freaky, Dino. Not the fact that it's a sex toy. And I think the term "disembodied" applies. Anyway, that was said somewhat jokingly.

My hand is not disembodied, Super Munch.

Joshy, like I said, I think a disembodied plastic penis is just as weird as a pocket pussy. But not all female sex toys look just like penises, do they? And as for my indication of preferring a hand over a plastic vagina, that's my own personal opinion. I don't know if you think I was implying that no one should use sex toys, or what, but you're reading too much into it.

Havoc · #24 11-26-2005, 04:09 PM

To each his own, raises here. I personaly don't see the pleasure in a pocket pussy either. I'm sure it feels good and it could be a sensation, but so can jerking off.

On another note. Why is it called the pocket pussy anyway? It's not like your gonna carry it around everywhere you go. Like, when sitting in the mcdonalds and you go to the bathroom... get the pocket pussy out your pocket... yea... lol.

***Nate*** · #25 11-26-2005, 05:17 PM

Read what he said Dino. He didn't say that every person who uses a sex toy is mentally ill. He said that there may be a mental condition that would cause someone to actually get turned on by a fake orifice.

Big difference.

Leto · #26 11-26-2005, 06:59 PM

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It never had a body to start with!

Lollylosp!

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My hand is not disembodied, Super Munch.

Lollylosp! Not got.

This is the assumption I have come to: Pocket pussies are any 13 year old boys dream (the straight ones). It's nothing about wanting to have sex with a disembodied orafice, but more of wanting sexual release.

Dino · #27 11-28-2005, 06:58 AM

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Lollylosp!

Lollylosp! Not got.

This is the assumption I have come to: Pocket pussies are any 13 year old boys dream (the straight ones). It's nothing about wanting to have sex with a disembodied orafice, but more of wanting sexual release.

...because the man can't get a woman.

Yeah, exactly. That's what my point is. Look at all this bullshit that's being posted ... "oh my god it's a DISEMBODIED ORIFICE! WHO WOULD WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH IT OH MY GOD! YOU SICK MOTHER FU"... No. Shut up. Go and die.

It's exactly the way SM said. You get to shove your dick in something that FEELS like a real vagina, so you get all the pleasure of sex, without having to actually find a woman to do it with. That sounds completely sane to me to be honest, and I find it logically-retarded that anyone is even suggesting a link between "disembodied orifices" and mental illness.

Reacting like Raisin did demonstrates an extreme level of patheticness that's beyond anything I've ever seen before. It's so mind blowingly childish, it's like one big "EWWWW!" reaction. To imply that you'd be a lesser person if you used one is so immensely arrogant, but to imply that you'd have a mental disorder is beyond belief. Raisin you are a total asshole, an arrogant, childish, vane, conservative asshole. You completely fell into the trap of the question and are an example to all aspiring open-minded individuals of what not to become.

Havoc · #28 11-28-2005, 07:49 AM

*Me walks in with a bucket of water and puts the flames out*

I think Dino once again spoke for the most of us.

TheRaisin · #29 11-28-2005, 02:10 PM

LET's go, DI-no! *clap, clap, clap-clap-clap* WHEEEE!

The comment about neurological disorders was a joke, and not in very good taste. Please disregard it. I wish only to express my distaste for the idea itself. I DO NOT judge people by their methods of masturbation.

And I don't resort to personal attacks on people with whom I don't agree on something.

I'm glad we got that cleared up.

Dino · #30 11-28-2005, 03:10 PM

OK, so maybe Raisin isn't as bad as I said... but still... god damnit... they're just cocksockets, what's so bad about them?

Anyway now zat eez over with we can all have zee raunchy gay mansex down by zee fireplace ahawhawhaw, sexy no? [/pedro the chef accent]