Dating

Daxter King · #1 11-07-2005, 03:54 PM

This is the thread to brag about your current important other. Give tips on picking up girls (or guys). Tell stories of great(or horrible) dates and dances. Post picks, give advice, do anything!

used:) · #2 11-07-2005, 04:26 PM

I hope you're not using this because you are too desperate to figure out the way yourself. Truth be told (in my opinion), there really isn't a way, you'll only be truly in love with someone if you can actually feel it. And the feeling is mutual for them as well.

SeaRex · #3 11-07-2005, 05:00 PM

Hahaha! I laugh.

I guess I'm lucky. My first and only relationship has lasted three years running, and it's been wonderful. Having someone to care for is the best feeling in the world.

Tips? Well, I'm no expert on women or seasoned dating veteran by any means, but here's a few things I've learned...

Guys, if your date offers to pay for something, graciously accept.
Listen.
Don't forget stuff. That's bad.
Become friends with someone before dating them.
LISTEN.
The most vital piece of information I can offer is that there are two ways to spell relationship: "R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P" and "C-O-M-P-R-O-M-I-S-E." A relationship without equal compromise to accommodate partners will end in disaster. Compromise ensures that both parties can feel happy and loved. Have your cake and eat it too. Etc.

Joshy · #4 11-08-2005, 04:07 AM

Just be a dickhead to them, and if you want to date a girl, dont ever be friends with her, and paying when going out for dates, but please dont over do it.

OANST · #5 11-08-2005, 05:38 AM

I've been with the same girl for five years now. She can be extremely annoying but she's also really hot and I get to do whatever depraved things I can think of. Plus we have a child togethor.

Impaler · #6 11-08-2005, 05:56 AM

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Just be a dickhead to them, and if you want to date a girl, dont ever be friends with her, and paying when going out for dates, but please dont over do it.

Clearly this person has never been on a date before

Rex Tirano · #7 11-08-2005, 07:34 AM

Gosh, bless you SeaRex. ^_^ So sweet.

But yeah, coming up to mine and my boyfriend's 6 months [which is a big deal because usually my relationships last about a week]. But I agree with SeaRex. Except add "trust" onto his list of must ofs.

- Rexy

Kimon · #8 11-08-2005, 11:28 AM

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Clearly this person has never been on a date before

I'm quite sure Joshy has had girlfriend (and an attractive one at that) for quite some time. So hushington.

Anyway, I have no advice, because I've never been on a date, and I don't really care to. Hanging out = Preferable. Of course, I can never know for sure until I go on one, I guess.

OANST · #9 11-08-2005, 12:16 PM

If you get laid at the end of it then I think you will find it preferable.

Rich · #10 11-08-2005, 12:32 PM

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But yeah, coming up to mine and my boyfriend's 6 months [which is a big deal because usually my relationships last about a week]. But I agree with SeaRex. Except add "trust" onto his list of must ofs.

I hate it when you talk about the real person.

No real advice from me. Generally being friends with the person helps. If you're both nice, things should just work, y'know.

Joe the Intern · #11 11-08-2005, 12:57 PM

I just puked on myself.

MojoMan220 · #12 11-08-2005, 12:58 PM

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Clearly this person has never been on a date before

There's more truth to that than you think...

Having a good sense of humour is key. Don't be afraid of teasing the person, as long as it's in a playful manner.

OANST · #13 11-08-2005, 01:01 PM

So would telling her that she smells like a dog shit in her mouth fall under playfull?

Dino · #14 11-08-2005, 03:08 PM

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This is the thread to brag about your current important other. Give tips on picking up girls (or guys). Tell stories of great(or horrible) dates and dances. Post picks, give advice, do anything!

Anyone else noticed the stingbee style first post format?

Kimon · #15 11-08-2005, 03:22 PM

Oh Dino, you and your skeptecism.

There are people on the Internet who are equally as stupid as stingbee. Besides, I think he already has another approved account.

Impaler · #16 11-10-2005, 01:11 AM

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There's more truth to that than you think...

Having a good sense of humour is key. Don't be afraid of teasing the person, as long as it's in a playful manner.

Sure having a sense of humour is a key aspect in finding a g'f, but explain how being a dickhead to them works? Treat them like shit and ur not goin to end up anywhere!

Joshy · #17 11-10-2005, 02:19 AM

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Sure having a sense of humour is a key aspect in finding a g'f, but explain how being a dickhead to them works? Treat them like shit and ur not goin to end up anywhere!

In short most(emphasising most) teenage girls wants a guy that acts like a man. Treating them like a princess isnt going to do any good, and of course this is my own opionion. But look around, why do girls go for the "jocks" as they say in America, and not the guy that treats them the nicest.

Impaler · #18 11-10-2005, 02:28 AM

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In short most(emphasising most) teenage girls wants a guy that acts like a man. Treating them like a princess isnt going to do any good, and of course this is my own opionion. But look around, why do girls go for the "jocks" as they say in America, and not the guy that treats them the nicest.

I don't mean that you have to treat them like a princess, but I don't think bein a "dick" to them works either.

Fuzzle Guy · #19 11-10-2005, 03:55 AM

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In short most(emphasising most) teenage girls wants a guy that acts like a man. Treating them like a princess isnt going to do any good, and of course this is my own opionion. But look around, why do girls go for the "jocks" as they say in America, and not the guy that treats them the nicest.

The only person I've seen who goes for the "Jocks" is Sawyer on the TV show lost, and that's fictional. So in my opinion it doesn't work

Rex Tirano · #20 11-10-2005, 07:34 AM

I think it'd be nice to be treated like a princess. ^_^

But yes... It's a common fact that women love a bad guy. I mean take Paul Robinson from Neighbours. *Drool* He is very sexy because he is such an arse.

- Rexy

Dipstikk · #21 11-10-2005, 09:40 AM

I've never been on a date in my life. Somehow this doesn't suprise me.

Facsimile · #22 11-14-2005, 12:15 AM

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Guys, if your date offers to pay for something, graciously accept.

I don't understand.

And I haven't been out with anyone, nor do I plan to anytime soon. Being asexual rules.
Way less hassle.

T-nex · #23 11-14-2005, 12:51 AM

Joshy, I think you've got it all wrong... Women like to be treated nicely. Of course we like bad guys, but if he treats the woman badly, she'll eventually leave him.

Havoc · #24 11-14-2005, 12:58 AM

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I've never been on a date in my life. Somehow this doesn't suprise me.

I've never been on a date either. Cuz I don't have the disire to...

Most girls are nothing but a hassle, unless you meet the right ones

. I'm not realy looking for a nice girl. I'l see what comes up as I live my normal live. Usualy those are the best people you meet

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Joshy · #25 11-14-2005, 02:43 AM

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Joshy, I think you've got it all wrong... Women like to be treated nicely. Of course we like bad guys, but if he treats the woman badly, she'll eventually leave him.

This is what happens, they like the bad guy but wants to be treated nicely, and they try to change the bad guy, but all the bad guy wants is sex. So in the end, bad guy wins.

AquaticAmbi · #26 11-14-2005, 03:38 AM

Fax, Luke meant if your date offers to pay for dinner, a movie, etc., it's okay to let her pay sometimes. Some men see it as a threat to their manliness.

What else do I have to say in here? Hmm.. Trust (meaning to trust the other and be trustworthy yourself), respect, compromise, appreciating each other's every wonderful quality but the little quirks and even flaws too, and most definitely open communication.

used:) · #27 11-14-2005, 04:37 AM

Well, I do have a girlfriend right now, and I care for her. But I don't see any love, not at all times mind you. What annoys me about her though is that she is cought up more about why people think of her. Which gets in the way quite a lot. Plus, she isn't the brightest in the bunch. It's very ironic and so cliche, I am the upper class citizen with a snob of a mother, and she is the peasant coming from financially challenged family. evenentually it ends, good thing I hardky grow dependent on much these days, thatw ay the hurt won't be too hard when it leaves. *waits for long rant by the forum goody two shoes about love and chocalates*

Majic · #28 11-14-2005, 02:17 PM

I've been sober for about two and a half years now. While I don't too much care for the resonsibilities of a full relationship, I miss that oh so pleasurable touch of a woman, and my oh so pleasurable touching of her. About the last time I had any true stimulation was homecoming dance back in October, and the end of May before that. Have a band party at a clubhouse coming up this Friday; I'll be happy to rub my frontal waist against arousing females again.

metroixer · #29 11-14-2005, 03:34 PM

Heh I never got a date before. (Meh i'm still young) I'm waiting till there is the perfect lady comes to my life. What she has to be to be perfect i'm not telling. And no its not sex driven.

Facsimile · #30 11-16-2005, 11:26 PM

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Most girls are nothing but a hassle, unless you meet the right ones

. I'm not realy looking for a nice girl.

Perhaps a nice cat would do the trick?