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Well, you took a single, isolated incident as this place turning into a "play ground." That's an exaggeration if I ever heard one. You overreacted, fucked up, as you put it.
Of course, that's not to say that I didn't fuck up in allowing the whole incident to take place.
I do. At least, I understand that you and several others were hurt by the incident. I was being completely honest in the Rule Revamp thread when I said...
So I do understand that you guys might feel betrayed, but it's only empathy; if I were in your position, I certainly wouldn't have felt as hurt as some of you did. Or at all, for that matter.
I still think that you overreacted. A lot. A whole lot. Even if you felt "betrayed" by a joke, that's not grounds for overthrowing (or trying to overthrow) the moderation team. As long as we're talking about "betrayals" here, I still say that a coup, even a failed coup, ranks far above a practical joke, especially when it isn't called for in any way. I still can't see how you feel that something like that is justified after I promised that I wouldn't allow something like the Wired incident to ever happen again. If you truly had the forum's best interest in mind, you would have let it go instead of trying to stir up dissent.
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You didn't get the point. I have a good sence of humour, I would have found the incident funny on its own. Even though there have been times where 'Wired' went far over the line IMO. And, if Dippy wouldn't have stirred things up like that, then I'd be laughing just as hard as you guys are.
The thing that pissed me off, was when I ended up on TM, and read all this kind of stuff about me from persons who normaly act perfectly nice to me, and there suddenly insult me like there's no tommorow. The stuff I read lately no doubt had a lot to do with my... uhm... 'attempted retaliation'
, but still there was a lot on there from before that, that just kinda shook me up a bit. Because I never knew these persons thought about me that way, since they always appear to act nice when I'm around myself.
I felt backstabbed bigtime, and given the above circumstances, can I please feel backstabbed? Cuz especialy the persons it concerns, I'm kind of disappointed in. I think anyone else would feel the same, or am I totaly wrong here?
Anyway, now I got this image of me who can't take a joke and takes the internet faaaaar to seriously... and that... kinda... wasn't the point
. Cuz I can take a joke, and I don't take it as seriously as I appear to. It's just that I like this place, and I'm kinda dedicated to keeping it alive and stuff. And since I lost trust in you guys at the time, one thing led to another and now I'm the laughing stock of the neighboorhood. Hey shit happens.
But yea, point of this is. If you have a problem with me personaly, just take it up with me, and don't go talking about what a moron I am behind my back. Or do talk behind my back about it, but at least have the guts to tell it to me as well, instead of acting all nice and stuff. I won't track you down and kill you if you tell me you don't like me.
If anyone could just do that in the future, stupid situations like this can be avoided and I won't have to break your neck when I do find out you're talking behind my back. Cuz as you might have noticed, THAT is what I take serious.
So with that it might be a good idea to just burry the hatchet and be honest with each other so we know what good we are to each other. Can we do that, or are we going to continue to stay pissed at each other?