40% of domestic violence is suffered by men? does that make the other 60% suffered by women?
i'm not sexist, but a set of bollocks and testosterone and a stupid stubborn brain really do make things chemically/physically different between males and females, and this usually amounts to the male putting up with more physical torment at work or just in day to day life as they physically burn more energy (also because they're heavier). males also naturally grow more muscular than females, unless you're purposely trying not to, because that's nature. for some reason nature dictates the male of the species with the really delicate crown jewels swinging between their legs is to be the one that goes out wrestling sabre-toothed tigers for food or whatever. obviously not now, but it's pretty much physically engrained within us. guys will naturally grow 'heavier' than gals. there's many physical differences between the sexes, in size especially. like the penis. we seem to have most of the penis.
i had to say all that shit just so i can say i don't care about women hitting men, but i fucking snap at men hitting women because of what i've just been going on about. the physical dissimilarities. males tend to be bigger. i'm not saying "it isn't fair because it's a guy against a girl", but come on, in reality, it is unfair. it shouldn't even get to that point anyway. you like to slap around your partner when they're not doing what you want them to do? okay, i'll slap you around because you're not doing what i want you to do. which is act like a civilised human being.
i mean the reaction towards the guy i thought was great, you want social outcry and disgust, but the reaction towards the woman hitting the guy and people just laughing and not really being bothered i actually also thought was great. just again, i'm like one of the last people to be sexist or anything, you just really need to look at our separate biology(s). a bloke manhandling a woman isn't right, but turn it the other way where the woman is handing out the punishment and i think it becomes more of a "oh god mom is trying to hit me again what have i done wrong this time duck and cover". which is okay. and i don't want that to sound condescending or anything either because it isn't meant to be, it's meant to be all about control. if we were just mindless automatons we might react violently towards a partner hitting you with a bread stick, but we have something called self-control. we don't just impulsively act, we think and can take shit for days/months/years before it becomes a psychological stress. we still can act impulsively, the difference is deciding not to. if you decide to act like a cunt towards other people, be prepared to have everyone else treat you likewise. and let's be fair; that goes for both the ladies and the gents.
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