I have a lot of respect for vegans. Your friend who is opposed to the death of animals for food has no problem with enslavement and suffering for food though? She draws the line at death? Besides, death is a byproduct of commercially produced eggs. Millions of worthless male chicks are tossed into a dumpster once they hatch, they can't lay and you certainly don't need many for mating. Dead and dying male chicks:
The only eggs I eat come from my two pet hens. My hens aren't kept awake all night in tiny cages, forced to lay egg after egg.
Milk though, I don't think is such a problem. Milking isn't exactly torture on the animal.