Society- Too far? -

The Marching Mudokon · #**121** 02-26-2005, 01:22 AM

Yes you are absolutely right. What i'm saying is that she was saying she was going out and had a boyfriend which I thought is extremely stupid seeing as they don't even know the ramifications of a date is. That's what I was getting at.

Alpha · #**122** 02-26-2005, 01:44 AM

A 5 year old would intend to call a girl "disgusting".

The Marching Mudokon · #**123** 02-26-2005, 02:29 AM

Yes that's true but maybe children are growing up faster these days with all of the TV shows and what not putting pressure on kids. I don't know, it's not like the good old days...

Alpha · #**124** 02-26-2005, 03:00 AM

Is that good or bad?.With smoking and getting drunk is BAD but growing up faster could this lead to super smart kid's?.

The Marching Mudokon · #**125** 02-26-2005, 03:10 AM

Maybe they won't be super smart kids but turn out emotionally deformed! I think we're getting ahead of ourselves here though.

TheRaisin · #**126** 02-26-2005, 12:08 PM

How in the world would kids growing up faster cause them to be smarter? I do not think of children growing up that quickly to be anything beneficial.

Alpha · #**127** 02-26-2005, 01:43 PM

A little survey:
Someone walk's up to you in school they ask you have you ever bin to book's and then they ask you are you a frigit.

The point is I know someone who'd kiss someone even if they didn't know them, or even seen them before it!. The person who is kissing the other person because they want to but the other is kissing just so they can prove that they are not a frigit, I myself would only kiss a girl if I actually liked her and she like me not a five sencond fling it's madness!.

Shinjara · #**128** 02-26-2005, 02:04 PM

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A little survey:
Someone walk's up to you in school they ask you have you ever bin to book's and then they ask you are you a frigit.

I really didn't understand that, Alpha. Sorry.

Can I just reinforce my point that children of 5 years of age do not look at members of the opposite sex in a loving or sexual way. They do not understand dating or anything like that. They might hear people using the word "date" and use it without knowing the meaning.

I know this for a fact, I study childcare.

Leto · #**129** 02-26-2005, 09:40 PM

Shinjara, you are very true in the words you speak. If a small child says they are 'dating', they have been tricked by peadophiles most probably. They seem to be just going with tah flow, brah.

It is the highest form of idiocy, I tells you. Children don't know whaddafuk they are doing.

Rich · #**130** 02-27-2005, 12:46 AM

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If a small child says they are 'dating', they have been tricked by peadophiles most probably.

How?

Peadophiles are ADULTS who molester children. These 'dating' children only molester other children of that age group.

thatbluebastard · #**131** 02-27-2005, 03:18 AM

well, pedophilia is the incorrect term to use in a situation as extreme as that.

if it were the case, it would be nepiophilia or infantophilia.

a child that is very young could have teleiophilia, which is the opposite of pedophilia. through their short upbringing, they might be conditioned to believe that their attraction to adults is normal.

i feel incredibly bad for pedophiles. as a disorder, there is no real way to treat or cure pedophiles of their urges.

but what is society to do?

Alpha · #**132** 02-27-2005, 10:30 AM

Shinjara: It's a what would you do?, sitiuation*

MojoMan220 · #**133** 02-27-2005, 10:47 AM

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Shinjara: It's a what would you do?, sitiuation*

"A little survey:
Someone walk's up to you in school they ask you have you ever bin to book's and then they ask you are you a frigit."

This makes no sense...

Alpha · #**134** 02-27-2005, 11:01 AM

Do-over:
"A little survey:
Someone walk's up to you in school and they ask you have you ever been to book's(a club) and then they ask you " are you a frigit"(person who has never kissed the oppisite sex) what do you do?.

***Nate*** · #**135** 02-27-2005, 06:38 PM

You could say :
a) none of your business
b) Never been to book's but I fail to see why that makes me a frigit.
c) I wouldn't make out with them just to prove a point. That'd be stupid.

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12 to 13? In the U.S. it's like fourteen to fifteen.

We don't have middle school though. It's Primary from prep or grade 1 (depending on your state, prep is an extra year before grade 1) to grade 6 and then high school from years 7 to 12.

Alpha · #**136** 02-28-2005, 02:27 AM

I knew that's what you'd say. Anyone round my town has a serious issue when someone tries to call em a frigit except me who say's go **** yourself.

Rich · #**137** 02-28-2005, 11:56 AM

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We don't have middle school though. It's Primary from prep or grade 1 (depending on your state, prep is an extra year before grade 1) to grade 6 and then high school from years 7 to 12.

Same with England. Making those in 'Year One' way too young to date.

TheRaisin · #**138** 02-28-2005, 01:07 PM

I'm a frigit. Damn.

But what's this Book's club and what does it have to do with anything?

AquaticAmbi · #**139** 02-28-2005, 02:00 PM

I can't believe there's an actual term for a person who has never been kissed over there. That's pretty sad. I can just imagine a bunch of 12 year olds whispering, "Oh my gosh! Did you here?! He's still a frigit!"

However, Raisin here makes it sound precious.

TheRaisin · #**140** 02-28-2005, 08:11 PM

Precious? I don't follow you. You and your Tennesee speech.

Yes, it would be sad if a bunch of twelve-year-olds did that. But I am FIFTEEN. Fifteen years old and I've never kissed a girl, Ambi. That doesn't sound even slightly odd?

Leto · #**141** 02-28-2005, 08:20 PM

No, not slightly odd. You seem to just be ill at ease with the opposite sex... Many people are.

Yes, Ambi, what doth you mean by 'precious'?

Facsimile · #**142** 03-01-2005, 12:45 AM

It's even sadder for me Raisin...

Super Munch, you say it's just about 'being good with the opposite sex' but it's not. You may not realise it but looks factor into this world a hell of a lot sadly.

Alpha · #**143** 03-01-2005, 09:50 AM

She means it's cute(I think) and what do you mean "It's worse for me?".

thatbluebastard · #**144** 03-01-2005, 01:10 PM

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It's even sadder for me Raisin...

Super Munch, you say it's just about 'being good with the opposite sex' but it's not. You may not realise it but looks factor into this world a hell of a lot sadly.

unfortunately, it's true, but not to a great extent.

in the work force and such, it is a sad state of affairs.

but in terms of relationships/friends, anybody who is that shallow[everyone is shallow, to some extent] isn't worth knowing anyways.

SeaRex · #**145** 03-01-2005, 01:15 PM

Wow... I guess "precious" is only a local thing...

Anyway, "precious," as I assume you all know, means "cherished or highly valued." However, here 'round these parts, "precious" has also come to mean "cute."

Ahyuck!

TheRaisin · #**146** 03-01-2005, 02:11 PM

Cute. Okay. Yes, that's what I thought. I still don't see how it applies to me being a frigit.

I'm not ill-at-ease with the opposite sex, per se. I just haven't much confidence . . .

AquaticAmbi · #**147** 03-01-2005, 03:58 PM

Oof, I feel like an ignorant hillbilly now. Anyway, I did mean "cute". Just... don't question it; I find certain qualities in people to be cute that most people would not.

Hmm, 15? That's not a terrible age to still be un-kissed at. I was only a year younger than that, meaning Lukeo was your age: 15. I'd say in most ways, the older you are, the better because you'll be more mature, and you'll be able to appreciate the moment more when it finally comes.

Leto · #**148** 03-01-2005, 08:28 PM

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I'm not ill-at-ease with the opposite sex, per se. I just haven't much confidence . . .

Yahuh. Confidence sure is a frickin' death trap. You have it or you don't. But then again, I'm bi, so female interaction seems alot much easier than it would for straight peepz. I am act the same around both genders, they just seem like people.

But really, confidence cannot really be obtained, more like developed over time...

Rich · #**149** 03-02-2005, 11:38 AM

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But then again, I'm bi, so female interaction seems alot much easier than it would for straight peepz. I am act the same around both genders, they just seem like people.

I'd love to say I was a-sexual.

But I'll settle for celebate. At a push, I'm straight but I'm not really interested in either sex. I don't see the point of chasing after girls... or boys.

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But really, confidence cannot really be obtained, more like developed over time...

Playing live increases your confidence! Especially if you have to sing...

Alpha · #**150** 03-03-2005, 08:54 AM

Singing?, since when did singing increase your cofidence?, if you mean crowd confidence then yeah but I'd say the best way is to do a stand up comedy act.