Sex

Havoc · #1 06-23-2007, 03:29 AM

Time for another nice dicussion thread that has to go on for a while because the forums are BOOOOORING!!

What are your views on sex? Whats your opinion about it? Have you had it? Do you like it? How open are you about sex?

Is sex a meaning of entertainment which you can do with anyone you like or do you feel it's something you should share with only your lover?

Discuss damnit!

Goresplatter · #2 06-23-2007, 03:47 AM

Haven't had it yet, just reached 16 marker. I'm not going to pick up some random chavette from the street, but I'm going to wait for someone special to come along. Yes, desperate - no, not THAT desperate

skillyaslig · #3 06-23-2007, 03:57 AM

Havent had it either. I really dont care what others say. I'll have sex when I want to. Screw all the others.

***Nate*** · #4 06-23-2007, 04:04 AM

I slightly object to the wording of this poll because, whilst I personally don't plan on having lots of meaningless sex, I don't hold it against* people who do. That's just the way I'm wired up - I need to trust someone before I can open up to them like that.

*pun unintended

Marvak · #5 06-23-2007, 04:05 AM

I havn't had it yet either, though I'm not as pure as you think

I'm just waiting for the right person. Oh, and for my 16th birthday, of course. I like to stay within the law

Slaveless · #6 06-23-2007, 04:08 AM

I'm thirteen, I shouldn't have opinions on the matter. I feel I will only have it when I'm in love, since I'm just spoiling it on someone whom I probably won't even like later on! And it probably would be more meaningful with someone I love close to my heart.

Yet it has been spoiled on the minds of my fellow classmates and they eager to have it. They have gotten real close to 'doing' it, but lack the ability to understand it. Then again, teenagers always believe they are mature and don't have anything else to learn in life. I'm just unproud on how sex has been abused by society.

skillyaslig · #7 06-23-2007, 04:36 AM

Yes indeed. I just wanna punch the stupid s***s in my classes. Alway going on about who they did it with, how and long...Phah, you just wanna kill them. Then they tease me, cause I havent done it. I dont care, they probabaly have AIDS or somthing like that.

Strike Witch · #8 06-23-2007, 04:36 AM

Well, If this boy I know reciprocates....

Fingers crossed.

Zerox · #9 06-23-2007, 04:36 AM

Been 15 since May, not legal or anything, though I do think the laws surrounding it are somewhat...odd. And on top of that, underage is probably everywhere anyway, as if you're going to let anyone see you doing it for the police to know, for God's sake.

I doubt I'd stand a chance of getting a one nighter or something, or any oppurtunity like that, even if I wanted to. I would rather save it for someone I'm truly in love with, though perhaps not necassarily until marriage, maybe, it depends, that seems more of a religious factor, and generally religion is starting to seem rather silly to me for a number of reasons.

Sex, as well as being for enjoyment, should also be about love, and that is little understood nowadays, and seems to be focused purely on the enjoyment aspect, with chat up lines, porn, etc. Alot of people also don't take it seriously, and it's only with a sensible, proper friend that you could have a proper conversation around it, because most people at school laugh about it (like alot do at sex education) if you mention it or something.

I do, personally, look forward to it in a way, though I doubt there are many people who could say that they don't in any way whatsoever.

Marvak · #10 06-23-2007, 04:44 AM

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I do, personally, look forward to it in a way, though I doubt there are many people who could say that they don't in any way whatsoever.

I don't look forward to popping the cherry. That's supposed to hurt.

skillyaslig · #11 06-23-2007, 05:02 AM

For us girls I hear. Not the most promising thing. That kinda puts me off, and all the AID stuff.

Rex Tirano · #12 06-23-2007, 05:22 AM

IMO sex should be about love, and I wouldn't ever go chasing after someone just for sex.

Isn't half bad though.

- Rexy

Fortesque13 · #13 06-23-2007, 08:39 AM

I NEVER have and I NEVER SHALL... (it's not "have sex") pick up anyone randomly generated to have sex with. Think about it, it's not only YOU having sex, it's the other person too! Think about how would you feel if someone took advantage of you and left you later...

Venks · #14 06-23-2007, 08:54 AM

Geesh not enough people talking who have had sex.
So I shall!

I can't have sex with random people, I'm just to shy. Though that doesn't stop me from fantasizing about it. ^^
I personally was going to wait until marriage as I didn't see the point in rushing into it, however my girlfriend and I were 'having fun' and one thing led to another. Thus sex.
3 days before I turned 18! I'm so horrible by braking the law!
Then again its illegal in Virginia to have sex in any position but missionary... I'm afraid I like breaking laws.
I don't regret that I'm having sex before marriage, my girlfriend and I are very comfortable in our current setting.

As for people who do it with anybody, good for them. I know better then to mess with girls in my school though, last blood drive so much blood was rejected becuase kids at my school have AIDs.
Thank goodness my girlfriend goes to a different school.
Then again we were both virgins so I don't know what I'm worried about.

Oh and another thing, when your both virgins it makes having sex so much easier, we experiment and learn together.

Havoc you just love posts like this don't you?

Hobo · #15 06-23-2007, 08:55 AM

Look face it Havoc, our only common ground is that we are the only non virgins on this forum.

Except maybe Peter, but toddlers don't count

Munch's Master · #16 06-23-2007, 08:58 AM

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I'm thirteen, I shouldn't have opinions on the matter.

Woah woah, stop the press, you're thirteen?!? I thought you were like, 17.

Anyway, I'm underage, so shouldn't be able to say, but I view it as only being sutiable if there is love involved. A guy I know is always bragging about his exploits, but it is only ever with 1 girl who he does sound like he loves, so it doesn't seem casual.

mitsur · #17 06-23-2007, 10:23 AM

I'm planning on hanging on until marriage, y'know, because the big AIDs and HIV scary part.

Of course, I won't be adverse to the odd bonk. Just wear protection each time, unless we're married and want to have kids, or I personally know myself that they don't have any STDs.

Venks · #18 06-23-2007, 10:25 AM

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Look face it Havoc, our only common ground is that we are the only non virgins on this forum.

Except maybe Peter, but toddlers don't count

Hmm, guess somebody didn't read my post.

skillya_glowi · #19 06-23-2007, 10:35 AM

*cough* Some one seems to have forgotten me!

I've had it several times, liked it, and I believe in having it just for fun occasionally. It's not like I'm gonna marry the guy, so what the hell? I'm young. I have the right to enjoy life.

Just a disclaimer, I always use lotsa protection...but yeah...I know that having sex with someone you actually love is a million times better than having sex with just a fling, but I haven't fallen in love yet and I'm glad I haven't.

.:~Skillya Confesses to be a Non-Virgin~:.

Zozo the Zrilufet · #20 06-23-2007, 10:45 AM

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*cough* Some one seems to have forgotten me!

I've had it several times, liked it, and I believe in having it just for fun occasionally. It's not like I'm gonna marry the guy, so what the hell? I'm young. I have the right to enjoy life.

Just a disclaimer, I always use lotsa protection...but yeah...I know that having sex with someone you actually love is a million times better than having sex with just a fling, but I haven't fallen in love yet and I'm glad I haven't.

.:~Skillya Confesses to be a Non-Virgin~:.

I don't know why, but when I read that, I feel sad.

skillya_glowi · #21 06-23-2007, 11:14 AM

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I don't know why, but when I read that, I feel sad.

I'm sorry...

mitsur · #22 06-23-2007, 11:16 AM

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I don't know why, but when I read that, I feel sad.

Ah, you're just jealous of the lucky guy who had Skillya.

I know I am.

Zozo the Zrilufet · #23 06-23-2007, 11:21 AM

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I'm sorry...

Eh, not your fault, I just have antisexual catholic opinions, nothing against you personally.

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Ah, you're just jealous of the lucky guy who had Skillya.

I know I am.

I am a female.

That's it, I'm changing my signature so that no one else makes the mistake of my gender again....I'm not sure if what I typed made sense.

mitsur · #24 06-23-2007, 11:26 AM

Uhm....

*awkward silence*

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Let's pretend I wasn't a total retard, shall we?

Zozo the Zrilufet · #25 06-23-2007, 11:31 AM

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Uhm....

*awkward silence*

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Let's pretend I wasn't a total retard, shall we?

No, lets laugh from behind our screens while I add to my signature....

I win, yaaay(Fails).

***Alcar*** · #26 06-23-2007, 11:32 AM

I live by a few rules regarding sex. At the most basic, when in a relationship I only sleep with my partner (had to clarify that for those *cough* Nate *cough* who think I'm a dirty whore). When not in a relationship, I must admit that I do whore myself out. Only I refuse to kiss, because that's something I believe should only be shared between lovers.

As for my virginity, I misplaced it sometime when I was thirteen. I've always been a terribly horny person. My last proper relationship started out with having sex four times in the first night (and I still fondly look back on how great it was). From then on, there was not a time where I slept the night (and oh boy did I stay the night a lot) where we did not have sex at least once before snoozing.

At the moment I'm not in a relationship, so I am currently available for sex should any eligible, legal (Charlie you bastard

) people be in the area

Alcar...

Rex Tirano · #27 06-23-2007, 12:21 PM

I look forward to you coming to the UK, Peter.

- Rexy

Fortesque13 · #28 06-23-2007, 12:26 PM

Keep it in the PM you two. I don't want you two to go off topic in THAT juicy way.

Rex Tirano · #29 06-23-2007, 12:28 PM

Haha. :P I do think that sex should only be within a loving relationship though. I actually can't ever see myself going off with a random person just because I wanted sex.

But it's a personal choice, some people would rather go off and have much sex as possible than wait for love.

- Rexy

Fortesque13 · #30 06-23-2007, 12:33 PM

I still wait for THE love. And I won't take anything less than that! But mostly, i think my opinion is based on the fact that most girls are unattractive to me. (I'M NOT GAY!) I find that tons of makeup and no brains make a completely unattractive person. But, it's all in your opinion who you like and who you don't, right? Dammit! I gotta find someone as mentally ill as me!