Yes some want you to go, and some want you to stay. But what would have probably been good was not to post a poll and also this topic. I dont see why you would want to see results, unless you were conducting some sort of expirement. In the end its you who decides so that poll and topic were uneeded. In regards to what others have said I think Majic has one of the most sensible plans. Take a vacation for while see whats its like away from here, come back, and decide. And its also to take in consideration for all of us what DI said, its not always great to sugar coat things that you say. Later on if you say something to someone and dont do that, they will never really know that you are upset with them, or whether you really mean what you say. Its another weakness we all have not to really speak what we mean. It may hurt, but would you rather most of the time have the truth, instead of always hearing things that are just brushed up to sound better.
I advise this to be closed, I think everyone has cleary stated what they wanted, and the topic is pointless beyond this point now. She needs to make decisions for herself, and not be swayed by the majority.
-Al the Vykker
Last edited by Al the Vykker; 12-26-2002 at 09:58 AM..
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