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Originally posted by Gluk Schmuck
Spanking gives children a lot of attention. And attention-seeking is usually why children mis-behave. Spaking them won't help. It also teaches them that it is acceptable to hit other people.
For example, there was a TV programme about spanking children. In one clip, a child hit his mum. His mum then told him not to do it again and then she spanked him. Just wait till they ask "Why can you hit me but I can't hit you?" then tell them why.
Prison = nasty place, makes people nasty.
Psychiatric institute = not so nasty, makes people better.
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Spanking does not give kids attention and it does not make children mis-bahave. Kids are smart. They will try to control you. Like a kid would cry alot, in order for you to give he/she some candy because they know you will even though you said no. But spanking them, tells them that your in charge and you are not going to allow a kid to rule you. If you don't discipline your kids while they are youg, someone is going to discipline your kids for you. I have a nephew and a neice I know because they are spoiled. Spanking them I believe has improved their behavior because they now know that people are not playing with them and they don't wanna get a spanking so that's embedded into their mind to not hit you or whatever. My neice Tahndi, use to cry alot all night just so you can play with her alll night. We were tired. She cried harder and started to roll on the ground and whine but when my mom hit her, that girl feel asleep because she knows. Spanking It does not teach kids to hit other kids. I mean Gluk, have you ever seen kids get spankings? I think it helps. I haven't seen it. If a kid said "why can't I hit you", then you give them a hardcore deal. Gluk, the girl probably didn't hit the boy hard enough. If you tap them a bit, they would not fear the consequences. Of course You shouldn't abuse your kids or beat them until they are black and blue. You should spank them and after tell them that you love them to let them know that you didn't spank them just to be mean, but you care about them. If you discipline your kids, it means that you truly love your kids.
Prison: Helps, discipline
Psychology: Yeah right, like that person is going to listen? If it makes the person feel better, why do they keep going back to the psychologist?