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Originally posted by Jacob
Pinky, its obvious that you have been brought up in a family filled with 'pro-lifers' i say this mainly because they are 15 of you. Which, must have been harsh for your mum. I bet she'd gladly have an abortion if she wasn't a Christian.
Also, if i got a girl pregnant i would ask HER what she wanted to do. If she wanted an abortion, then fine. If not, then thats fine aswell.
Like somebody said, we have many living pieces of tissue in us. Smokers kill tonnes of cells, do you go around pestering them? Drinkers kill cells also. We are talking about TISSUE...im sure the baby would rather die then be brought up with a family who didn't want it, are stressed, with low income. The child would most likely turn violent and then if that has kids it'd start this chain reaction of Townie children. And everybody hates Townies.
Pinky, if every female in the world had one abortion then we still wouldn't be in trouble. Oh, and please say the word instead of the numbers. What the Hell is a "240"!?
Pinky, you have the paranoia that my family want me to have, its very scary. They always go "Are you sure they're your friends?" or "You dont want to be waitering all your life" or "Its a big commitment a baby is" and i just brush it off cos i am very wise. However, you seem to be shit scared of somebody calling you a "Slut" if you hold hands. Whats with that!?
Also, what would you call a accident Pinky? If a woman gets pregnant and the Penis did not enter the Vagina would that be a accident? Or is that on purpose?
I do really pity you Pinky, your paranoia will get you know were in life and its a shame that your gonna miss out on alot of your life through your bringing up. Im so glad i was wise enough to laugh at my family's remarks, unlike little, ole you.
Pinky and Khanz, put yourself in this position. Your mothers get raped, beaten and left for dead. A couple of months later they find out they are pregnant. Your financial situation is critical and your barely going to get by if you have another child, so, your mother is pondering an abortion. She doesn't want to, but she feels it would be best for the family. She asks for your advice, do you support her?
Pinky, if a woman gets an abortion she isn't being selfish, she is thinking of her future and the people around her who may get hurt. Having the child would be selfish, as the father would be in deep shit and he would have to live with that regret for the rest of his life.
Sex these days is about fun, bonding and caring for someone. Not just for breeding. We are not animals (Well, Dolphins have recreational sex.) and we deserve to have some fun in our shit little lives. Its just so happens that sex is the fun that gives us children aswell...
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Having the child is not selfish. Your being selfish by killing it makes more sense that way because you keeping it, you care about that child so much, you would do whatever you can to move on. How do you think keeping it is selfish?
You think sex is for fun? Your sick I pity you! It's not so fun when you can't find the father of your baby or when you find out your pregnant and can't take care of the baby. You don't get it Jacob, don't be so gullable and stop assuming that the world is innocent all the time. If you think that then you obvious think that no one is going to kill you. Some people don't care these days. You see people getting killed just by going to the ice cream man, you can't even walk to the post office anymore. I'm not paranoid, I watch my life and I just don't jump into anything because their might be a consequence to it and I really don't feel like facing it. Things can be avoided. Abortion is not the only option if you can't take care of the baby, you can:
Put it up for adoption
-Allow your relatives or God-parents have it
-Allow someone sterile who can't have children keep it
-Allow some temporarily take care of your child until you are financially ready.
-Get a job, you'll be alright.
You can have fun without doing sex you don't have to have sex in order to have fun. LOL.
Some women have sex because they want a baby and a family, fun is not the only thing Jacob, LOL! Sometimes people do sex in order for the money when you can go to school and get an education. We have kids who are 14 and 13 now stripping for money. Women have to carry the burden of a child not you. Sex is caring for someone else right? Well, when do you call it when a male leaves you with the baby and when you find out your pregnant and claims he's not the father? Does he still care about her? It happens. Don't worry Jacob, you will know the real deal when your older and living on your own.
Just because I have sex does not mean that I am missing out on life. Your going to live a horrible life if you naive about the world and I'm not paranoid I want to have sex when i am married. And you just condradicted you self by saying sex is not for breeding while you said we need sex in order to have children. Wha? I mean, your naive is scary and very dangerous Jacob and people will take advantage of you and use you.
So Jacob, give us some evidence on why you chose "pro-choice" instead of making fun of me because it's obvious that you don't have any evidence on why abortion is good. Tell us why.
Hah you do not know my family background. Just because I was brought up in my own family not to do such a thing, what about my extended family so you just need to be quiet. My aunt got an abortion so what does that tell you? You claim you know everyone's families but you don't.