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Some gays, from what I can tell, aren't really gays at all...they are just 'gay' because it is supposedly 'cool' or some sort of status symbol (I heard from one forum member some time ago that he believes that is the case with some of the 'lesbians' he has met).
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Thats mostly with Bisexual females. However, some males do, do that also. I let people think i was Gay at school after trying to persuade them i wasn't. It helps, it makes you funnier and girls talk to you more, they trust you more. It was quite kewl.
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(1)Wow, you are a man but you sleep with a man and your not gay? LOL!!!!!!!(2) If you do it or whatever to your same sex, your still gay no matter what.(3) I think you are not born gay it is a choice.(4) If your dating, having sex or married, with the same sex then you are gay.(5) People are going to caterize you as gay! Not straight.(6) It's not desperate because he does not "bag-up" with any guy ya know,(7) then that would be desperate (if you are a freak with a tonue ring and alot of tatoos and your horny, my brother loves those types!) . But yeah, he was serious, also (8)he wanted to add some "spice" to his sex life and he wanted a change and he was getting sick of girls anyways because he did like just girls at first.
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(1) - If a straight guy slept with a guy...it doesn't make him Gay or Bisexual. It makes him either (A): Bi-Curious, which basically means you are trying out both sexes to see which one you prefare. Or (B): A Cherry Picker, which basically means your a straight guy who goes to the other side from time to time.
(2) - No you arn't. Idiot child, lol.
(3) - If you have a choice then you have to choose one, before you do that however you need to experience both.
Smoking: Your friends are smoking, they say "Hey, try one." you have a choice...yes or no. Now, with smoking its easy you can see what it does to you and you have some hard facts that tell you what will happen. If you try it and dont like it you know its not right for you. Same goes for drink. HOWEVER...
Does this mean that when you get interested in having sex your gonna try both to decide which is best for you? Did you do that Pinky? No, it doesn't happen like that. Merely because it isn't a choice and as soon as you hit puberty (Or you may know before puberty, like me) you start to get attracted to that one sex more and more. Until your with them. With a choice you have to experience both sides...
(4) - Wrong, you cant even marry the same sex. Idiot child, lol. And if you are dating/having sex with the same sex it doesn't mean your gay, it means your either Bisex, Bi-C, a Cherry Picker or trying to see which you prefare.
(5) - Not if they ask. I have friends who were categorized as that and when people ask them they said they were straight but enjoyed a little girl on girl action also. People then accepted that and didn't think they were gay anymore.
(6) - Ever heard of Oral Pinky? You dont have to sleep with somebody to be desperate. Obviously your bro doesn't know what he is. If he's saying he's gay then he's lying, he int. He's Bisexual. If he has never had sex with a guy then he is Bi-Curious. When he actually has sex only then will he be sure. Obviously he didn't like the straight sex so he's turned to men to see if thats better.
(7) - No...that would be testing.
(8) - If he wanted to add some 'Spice' then why didn't he hook up with a girl into BDSM? Or 'Spice' it up with lengthier foreplay? Why did he turn to men? He's, obviously, in denile about wanting men for his sexual needs and just passing it off as 'Spicing' it up. Its a shame.
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(Im enjoying this, lol)