I was saying that abstinence would be prefered, but it is unrealistic to be able to have everyone follow it. Hell I stayed a virgin until about 3 years ago (im 24), but then...I think one of the probs I think there is is that in high school it doing the deed seemed to be a 'right of passage' to be accepted into popularity groups (thats the impression I got anyway). I didn't see it as a big deal then, sure I was curious about it...but I wasn't going to 'do it' just to prove my 'worth' to someone so I could be popular. (and get this...I was in a Catholic High School...)
Then again...I was a rather unusual teenage female to begin with...(didn't like shoping for clothes, didn't like listening to all the hard music, talking on the phone for hours at a time, etc...though I did have the trademark messy room...)
Point is that some will do it if they want to no matter what adults say...so you might as well teach them how to do it safely.
(was that clean enough? I think so....*paranoid*)
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