I just checked my Oxford Dictionary, and it doesn't have the F word in there. It was printed in 1964, however, so that might explain that.
But why shouldn't it be in there? It is a word in the Enlish language after all. It most likely has another meaning as well, buried in the mists of modesty (apart from ridiculous medieval definitions, that is). If you don't want a child looking at that word, let it use a children's dictionary.
I agree that consistant cursing does rather diminish your public reputation, even if it boosts your popularity with other such hot-tongued dudes. However, such 'colourful' words can be used by sophisticated people with no trouble. Take Billy Connolly. Every other joke has F in it, but my family recognise him as a hilarious and gentle man. His 'offensive' language is not meant to be offensive, and you recognise that it isn't meant to be.
I personally don't get offended by cursing (unless it's directed directly at me, obviously), but I've also ways avoided it. Except that time when somebody took my shoes from the school sports centre and left me their small worn stinky ones to wear.
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