I want to make it clear in this thread and elsewhere: Transphobic and homophobic language isn't acceptable on these forums, even when not addressed to trans or gay people. Also, making jokes about a female member just because she's a female makes you a dick. And the members of OWF only like dicks in the most literal sense.
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