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Wait when the fuck did you stop being a few years older than me Aidan? Were you lying about your age???
I feel so cheated.
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I thought you were 18-19??? I'm 21 in March...I figured there was two years between us tops. MY LIFE IS A LIE TOMMO.
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I think I was 19 when my what remained of my innocence dissipated into the ether...
I think sex must be a primarily psychological thrill for most people, like the thrill of dominance or submissiveness, depending on your preferred role, because I remember being underwhelmed by the physical sensation. I find it pleasant, but I have suspicions that I'm less sensitive than I should be - might be too much information, but I have to admit, I've never finished first (sort of means I can savour the "journey" though, so I don't mind).
Also, I always questioned the idea of virginity. Does putting a body part somewhere or putting a thing in your orifice really make any difference to anything in the long run (unless it goes wrong/right and results in offspring)? The only explanation I can think of it is evolutionary - I suppose if we didn't assign some sort of value to it, we wouldn't have the same drive to reproduce.
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Curious, and you don't have to answer this, but how many partners have you had? With my ex, I never ever finished first in the entire time we were together. My current missus is completely different and normally I tend to manage 30-40 minutes tops. What I'm trying to say is that you might not necessarily be less sensitive, you might not just have found the right girl/guy?
Who knows, I'm just being nosey.