Currently going on 21 and I still have mine as well. Likewise, a big reason is probably because of the fact that ever since high school, I've done very little socializing, so I haven't really had any opportunities. That being said, I'm not exactly gung ho to lose it any time soon, nor am I specifically interested in seeking someone out for both sex and/or a strong relationship of any kind...honestly. Which may sound a little sad but it's mostly because of the point I'm at in my life right now, personally speaking. I'm not avoiding it at all, but I'm also not actively looking for it.
I'm also not waiting for "the one" or anything like that, but despite that, I can't see myself being comfortable enough to have sex with someone unless I really, really trusted them. It would require a lot of time and effort. Basically, to summarize: I'm way more focused on other aspects of my life right now, and mixing in a relationship of any kind seems like it would do more harm than good - they would have to be absolutely worth it.
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