There's a thing in atheism going on between the sensitivity and firebrand, and it seems that there is room and need for both approaches. But no matter what you do you're never going to reach everyone and there are certain groups that you know you can write off as lost causes from the start. No matter what you do they'll be whining and complaining and there is simply no sense in wasting any grain of pearls on those particular swine.
the simple fact is, though, without provocation you are easy to ignore. And people will say "sure, we agree, we'll get to that" but nothing will ever happen. You have to make it consciously as much of an issue as it really is.
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