^ Here we go again. (@ WoF)
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... but I can't voice my anger unless I'm prepared to be accused of being gay, which I am not because I think I'd have a mental breakdown or something :S and i dont think my friends would be too accepting...
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You need better friends, mate. Also it sounds like you need to build on your confidence and discover yourself. Being accused of being something your not, or even if it turns out that you are what they accuse you of, shouldn't be a problem if you are sure of yourself.
On topic: Some people just want to be right and win arguments even though their beliefs and perceptions are warped. People like that aren't worth dealing with since it's not as if you can change their opinions unless you feel they'll be open enough to both listen to you and take onboard what you tell them... Being confrontational with them and blaming them for all the problems in the world isn't likely to make them listen to you either (I speak from experience), so be careful.
If you're involved with them, then there isn't a lot you can do about it apart from trying to find out why they think that way and trying your best to understand and come to a compromise. Good luck to you. :S