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Originally posted by Surfacing
And Syd ask me why do i act like a man if i don't sleep with men? well i can't help acting like a man i mean i'm still in my adolescence stage but after i have entred an adulthood i will yeah be a man. So why would you ask me something like why do you act like a man if your not attracted to a man for??? Are you suggesting i act like a girl???? I know gay men are not sexually attracted to the female gender, but does that give them the right to act like women?
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It seems you missed the purpose of the question. It was a response to your condemnation of gay men who happen to act effeminately, in which you couldn't see the logic in why a man who doesn't find women sexually would behave effeminately. Your post suggests that one must act like the sex he finds attractive. I pointed out the flaw in your logic, as why would the rule apply only to homosexuals and not heterosexuals?
Have you ever considered the possibility that some gay men act effeminately because they feel comfortable doing so? The mere fact that you're insecure with your sexuality is not reason enough to deny the right of someone to act in a fashion they find comfortable.