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I don't really care about defined sexuality. If I'm attracted to woman I'll be happy to have sex with her, and ditto for a man.
I don't think I could ever fall in love with a man, though, so I'm probably not gay.
You know what would be the worst kind of hell? Being sexually attracted to one gender but romantically attracted to the other. You could never enjoy sex with someone you love, and never have a romantic involvement with someone you enjoy sex with...
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I've never heard of that happening, but I do have a good friend who's sexually attracted to both guys and girls, but only romantically attracted to girls. Which means that he can talk about guys he finds attractive with his girlfriend without her feeling threatened.
I find what WoF said fascinating, because I'd never really thought about it like that. I can say that I've met a few women over the years about whom I've thought "If I were straight, you'd be the sort of girl I'd like" but that's about as far as the thought process has gone.