[abe is now!]

Well, I did it. I've finally told my girlfriend about the appointment I made with the GP to get snipped. She doesn't approve which is understandable, but at the same time I can't help but feel like I shouldn't have told her. But I had to be fair.

So far I've given into putting the idea of the vasectomy on hold to see if I get the maternal tug later on in life, which I feel I will never get. What can I do, people? I don't want to have kids, nor do I want to feel like I'm being guilted into having one but I don't want to strip her of having a child either.

Just note that she isn't to fond of adopting.

Use Akuel, it's better!