When my boyfriend was here then we would not sleep with others unless it was a threesome (which hasent happened, yes my post did say I aranged one but things got in the way)
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My original comment was meant to state that threesomes and committed relationships, which in my mind are monogamous, don't mix. No matter how hard you try to explain it to me I'll never understand how committed you can be to someone if you're cool with them having sex with another person. A casual relationship? Fine, been there, done that. But to say you love a person, and pat them on the back as they're on the way out the door to go have sex with another person? Utterly foreign to me.
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Now he's away for the summer. We have given each other permission to go off for some fun, but whether we choose to actually do that is another thing, so far we haven't. If he does then I won't mind, because I know it will just be a one off and that he still loves me.