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Threesomes + long term relationship = problematic. The fact that you want to have sex with another girl is already a sign that you're not totally committed to your partner, and she'll take note of that.
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In my opinion humans have never been and never will be monogamous, no matter how much people try to pretend that they are. Every person, male or female, looks at the sex they are attracted to no matter if they are in relationship. And especially a lot of males would jump at the opportunity to have sex with a woman they have been eyeing for a while, if their partner gave them sincere permission.
Luckily I'm in a relationship where we both realize that we simply like looking at other people as well. So she's allowed to look, flirt and have sex with others and at the same time so am I. That doesn't mean we don't love each other. We love each other immensely and our sex live is much above average. We're not lacking anything except the 'thrill of the hunt' as it were.
So for us a threesome would work (in fact, we're looking for a female participant but for some reason those are surprisingly hard to find). But a relationship like that does require an open mindset that not a lot of people (want to) have. And if it's not for you, it's not for you. Like T-nex said; different kinks, different people.
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I think me and Chris had a sort of kind of threesome once
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How do you have a sort of kind of threesome? Details, woman!