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There is no way that you can get on the right side of this issue for me or the vast majority of the people here, which is why I told you to shut the fuck up in the first place. I'm normally all for everyone stating their opinions, but you just don't get it. You aren't looking this objectively, and it's a subject that people take extremely seriously. Me, for instance. I take it very seriously.
Now, you know that I have been one of the only people to defend you in recent times. I think that a lot of the time your posts are met with unfair criticism. And that's the problem. You are so used to meeting this kind of aggression for every little thing that you can't tell when you are genuinely being a massive ignorant fuck. Do not talk to me about sex with children. Just don't fucking do it. Some of you always get weirded out that I become so violent at the subject and think that I'm just being a douchebag. Have we not learned that this conversation goes nowhere because I will curse, kick, scream, and stamp my feet the entire time? Just shut the fuck up about it.
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I don't know if I am objective in this. One of my earliest sexual experiences was that encounter everyone apparently hates me for and I thought it was great, so did she. I had absolutely no negative backlash about it from anyone around so yeah maybe it grew onto me as a relatively normal thing.
However you as a parent aren't exactly objective either, obviously. And I fully understand your reaction, I might react the same if I ever have kids, I don't know. It's a delicate subject, yes. But IMO we should be able to talk about it in a civil manner and try to look at each others points of view. I'm trying to do so, just don't see a lot of other people making the same effort.
You may hate the subject OANST but you're going to be faced with this at some point. Kicking and screaming isn't going to do anyone any good when your daughter gets older and brings home her first boyfriend.
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Is she now set up to make a series of horrible decisions? You bet.
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See, that I don't get. How does losing your virginity early influence the rest of your life at all? She might get a little more open minded about sex. If that's all then it's really a non-issue.