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That's not being right, that's being agreeing with the majority. At the end of the day nothing I say or do is meant to hurt anyone, so what exactly is the problem here? The general perception that young teens are too stupid to make an educated decision about something as simple as sex?
Lets put it this way. What if a 14 year old girl has sex with her 20 year old boyfriend. They have the time of their life, great sex and everything. They are both happy and the girl couldn't have wished for a better first time. Then a week later they break up. Exactly who got hurt in this scenario? According to parents this is the point where a young teen breaks up, crashes and burns and rebels and commits suicide. Somehow I don't think it's that dramatic.
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You realize that sex isn't really simple, right? Crack open a psychology book sometime soon, please. I'd be willing to send you a few, free of charge. I have loads.
And stop with the extreme examples. No one said this hypothetical girl would kill herself. Is she now set up to make a series of horrible decisions? You bet. We're like baby ducks. We imprint. Not just from a young age, but continually. That's why first impressions are so important to us. The same goes for first experiences.