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While I certainly don't agree with this:



Havoc does have a point that initial attraction is based on lust. But that's kind of a given, because how could it be based on anything else if it's a person you've never met before? Although I think it's going a bit far to say every guy thinks about having sex with any good looking girl he sees.

But what I really want to say is; girls aren't actually so different. It seems to me that the stereotypes over-emphasise guys' sex-drive and under-emphasise girls' sex-drive.

I grew up presented with both of those stereotypes and in my early teens I believed that was the way it was; guys liked sex and girls hardly gave it any thought. But having had a few close female friends since then (only one of whom was romantic, and that one's been my girlfriend for 3 and a half years now), I quickly learned that girls are just as interested in sex as guys.

So basically all I'm trying to say is, Havoc does have a point, but that applies equally to girls as it does to guys - we're not the completely alien creatures to each other that it's often made out like. But I'm probably just rambling about stuff everyone already knows, so I'll shut up now

This post made balls ache.