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12-10-2009, 12:40 PM
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While I certainly don't agree with this:

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...every guy who ever looked at you, or dated you (or some other woman, if you're going to take it personal), had only one primary thing in mind; what is the easiest and quickest way to get into her pants. EVEN if you're in a relationship where you've never had sex but love each other, sex is one of the primary things in a guy's mind.
Havoc does have a point that initial attraction is based on lust. But that's kind of a given, because how could it be based on anything else if it's a person you've never met before? Although I think it's going a bit far to say every guy thinks about having sex with any good looking girl he sees.

But what I really want to say is; girls aren't actually so different. It seems to me that the stereotypes over-emphasise guys' sex-drive and under-emphasise girls' sex-drive.

I grew up presented with both of those stereotypes and in my early teens I believed that was the way it was; guys liked sex and girls hardly gave it any thought. But having had a few close female friends since then (only one of whom was romantic, and that one's been my girlfriend for 3 and a half years now), I quickly learned that girls are just as interested in sex as guys.

So basically all I'm trying to say is, Havoc does have a point, but that applies equally to girls as it does to guys - we're not the completely alien creatures to each other that it's often made out like. But I'm probably just rambling about stuff everyone already knows, so I'll shut up now
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