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Im fairly sure this is called projecting one owns' feelings onto other. Just because you're an asshole doesn't mean everyone is.
Of course, the initial attraction between genders are purely physical, but depending on the guy and the girl, it will flourish into more than just sex.
You're wrong about people dating others purely for sex. That's a really fucked up stance to have, and you only prove yourself to be more of an asshole than I thought.
I haven't dated much. As I said earlier I didn't really have any interest in guys until I was maybe 16... But would you say that Chris only 'dates' me cos he wants to fuck me?
He never loved me? He never cared about me?... have you never cared about someone? Are you really as heartless as to just lie to girls ... To make them believe that they mean something to you in order to get into their pants?
That's what scum do. If this is really how it is, then I feel bad for your gf. Only pathetic losers lie to girls in order to get sex. Real guys would at least have the decency to make it clear that this is only sex and nothing more.
Hiding behind lies makes you scum, and I honestly know guys who DON'T act like you... Guys who either really care about girls, or just like to have fun string-free sex. The latter let the girls KNOW that that is all that it is, and there are plenty of girls up for that.
Prey on girls who you wont hurt, asshole.
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I never said that all men date women just to fuck. I said that the initial attraction is based on lust, not on love. The first thing a guy thinks about when seeing an attractive woman is how sex would be with that women, not how many children he wants to have with her. It's a very basic male fact.
I don't know about Chris. If you guys met for the first time in a bar then he just might have, I don't know. But as far as I know, you two met online and got together after knowing each other for a long time. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about the initial attraction, the first look. I also didn't say that we think about sex exclusively, where did you get that from?
And there is a difference between thinking and doing. I never lied to girls about sex/love but there are guys who do, which is stupid. Telling a girl you'll love her forever and yada yada while you know up front you're just in it for the pussy is, indeed, an asshole thing to do. That does not take away the fact that most, if not all, men think about having sex with that cute blonde that just walked past. That's the initial attraction, lasting like 5 seconds, but it's there.
And seriously, you can't judge if a guy is 'like me' or not because no guy will ever show that side of himself to a girl. What do you expect them to say to you? "Yeah, I know you have a boyfriend, but you're hot non the less and I'd do you."
Just because we think that way doesn't mean we don't know it's a stupid thing to say, and is only good for making an ass of yourself.