That's sad actually.... If you really have strong feelings for someone, It will in the end override your desires for sex even... To some extent. You bodily need will always be there, but knowing you can hold off for the one you love proves your love.
Also, love really extends the feelings really. Once you've gotten it on with enough girls, you'll realize it's all the same. I guess at some point it may get boring. But love spices it up
This doesn't ring true for all people, but most anyway.
But loving someone isn't easy. I'm sure you'll find someone to love. Everyone is capable of love(except if you have some mental dIsease preventing it). Love is not always easy to find though.
Seriously... If I'd never played Oddworld at my friend's house when I was 8, I'd never have joined OWF which is the reason I met Chris.
You can say that love happens spontaneously sometimes, an maybe you just need to let it come to you
Don't try too hard, but don't resist it either. If it happens, it happens. And you may get hurt. But at least you will have gotten experience from it.
Just a few encouraging words from me