looks matter very little to me. i like someone with quirks and a good character, but i'll tell you what does turn me off a woman; acting 'dumb' and being two-faced. also disloyalty, obviously. if she actually IS not all that bright though, it doesnt bother me.
i've never actually been in 'love' ever, even with my ex. i just got used to her. sounds a bit callous but i am in no means nasty.
and if you are attractive by other people's standards, i think that could be a magnet for shallow people, which could be a drawback if you wanted a successfull relationship.
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