Then you fail when the bully turns off the monitor.
Seriously, I should probably asking for advice rather than giving it, but maybe I can help through what I'm going through.
You have to understand that they're human, meaning, they're aresholes but realy they want to do good in their heart, at least for themselves, but I'm sure no one wants to find out someone killed themself because of you. Let them know how serious their shit is, how it's not a joke, and you're not taking it lightly, if you can get them to take this seriously, most people will apologize, but then they will do it again, so tell them what they can do, and get some sort of agreement out of them, sure this most likely wont happen, and if not, won't be followed out, but getting them to realise what they're doing is in the long term, bad for themselves, is what is most important.
Goodluck.
Remember, martial arts of a level 9 is nothing compared to level 10 diplomacy skills.
