Yeah, just stop caring, technically, no one can make your life a mysery, no one can ruin your life, you do that yourself, if you don't care, then anything they do to you is worthless.
Just keep one thing in mind, anything they throw at you, you should be able to recover, if you can't, then what they're doing is seriously screwed up.
That, or you could get your cousins on them. :P
I actually am embarrased when freinds finnish others for me though.
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