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Hey I see what you're saying, but there's more to the issue then bad parenting. Parents don't teach their son to smack his younger sister. He picks that up at school or whatever. We're talking about ways to dicipline kids when they do go wrong. Not how to prevent them going wrong.
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Sigh. Your line of argument goes NOWHERE.
Okay, so the issue we're now dealing with is what to do when kids DO go bad, which they all do at some point. Well, we don't hit them for one, which is the basest, easiest and worst reply to such behaviour. And the way to actually teach your son to hit his sister is by hitting him, so well done there, bozo. Children are far harder to reason with than adults, this is true, that's why the less intelligent, more impulsive and quick to temper parents hit their children rather than try alternative stratagems.
So, here you say, but what if the child simply will not respond to any amount of alternative ways to tackle misbehaviour? Okay, lets hit them. They cry and they stop. Job done. But, oh wait, 5 minutes later, they're acting up again! What to do, what to do, cos smacking is meant to me this final resort, right? The one thing to get them to quit it. Shit, shit, what to do, what to do.
Oh, I know, lets murder them.
In my life, I have found smacking to be of limited use and doesn't actually TEACH the child anything about their behaviour, there's no responsibility, just the consequence, which is short lived, and even if it weren't, children do not think long-term. When you were doing those naughty things when you were a child, were you constantly fretting about being caught and getting seen to (oo-er)? Were you fuck as like. Of course, I'm sure you knew you were doing wrong, but you did it anyway.
Need to smack = Bad parenting.
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And he's right, he can call you dude whenever he likes and you cant do much about it. His custom title gives away that he is more inportant then you in Alcars eyes.
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Oh my god, you mean I can't actually control his mind over this "internet" thing?! Anyway, you are incorrect in your assumption that rank means you have more rights (beyond the VIP Lounge). And you're also incorrect that Alcar considers him more important, since Alcar and I were once lovers for a brief period, where he would soothe my insecurities by whispering sweet-nothings into my ear before sucking my cock.