I have to agree. Apparently, not too many people share the brother and sister love with each other like they should. I too have my fair share of mistakes with newcomers. What I think is the problem is that OWF members are use to each other following the rules, (although I am bugged how some old members always get away for their rule breaking) and when a new one forgets, they don't expect them to get any better. So they bash them to get them to remember.
I'm with Venks all the way. Let's treat new members nicely, and not scare a potential out of their minds.
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