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The issue is that this is not something that people think rationally about. I know several people whose parents are forward-thinking, modern, former hippies who would be fine with a gay child (and the kids know that), yet they are still in the closet.
Besides, you've also got the issue that some people may not be able to admit to themselves that they are gay, let alone tell anyone else.
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If an overly flamboyant individual couldn't admit to themselves that they were gay, why would they act that way in the first place? It's a bit too obvious. If they were so worried about admitting that to themselves, don't you think they'd try their hardest to make their orientation as inconspicuous as possible?
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That post disturbed me a little bit but I can't deny a basic truth in it. People seem to think that finding flamboyant homosexuals annoying is tantamount to bigotry. It is not. I don't care what a person does in their bedroom. It doesn't effect me in any way. However, annoying behavior certainly does effect me. It annoys me. I am not a bigot if I think a man wearing daisy dukes and waiving around his arms is a bit of a nuisance. Just as I am not a bigot for thinking people that speak ebonics could use a better education.
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I agree with you completely, OANST. If a flamboyant homosexual were to try and find a job, while acting that way, he would be turned away not because of his sexuality, but because of his annoying behavior.
So, once again, orientation would have nopthing to do with someone being ushered off at a job offering.