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Does that mean I'm a freak by modern standards, as I look for meaningfulness in a relationship rather than quick sex. I always get hassled by everybody else wh yI don't go out with any of the girls i my year, and the answer is the simple fact that I don't feel anything for them. Sure, some are good-looking, but looks aren't everything. For instance, I have met a girl who I am in love with, and totally believe she is 'THE' one, as it were, for me. Tough though, as there's a small age gap and it's long-distance (well, long-distance by British standards). I'd rather experience a relationshp based on love, THEN have children.
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I agree with you completely. I was put in the same situation during the past few years. My friends constantly asked me why I didn't like anyone in my school and would try to set me up with people I didn't like for no apprent reason. They just didn't understand that I was looking for something meaningful and I didn't just want to date for the sake of dating. After all, that's pointless. Last year, my waiting payed off, as I finally found the person I've been looking for. She's exactly like me and wants the same things that I want. That's all that should matter, in my opinion. As long as there's love in the relationship, it's worht it. It shouldn't all be about the so-called "perks" that come with dating someone, as people believe it is nowadays. relationships should be about caring for whomever you're with, and if they're worth it, it should be about making your time with that person as meaningful as you possibly can.
Also, congratulations, Munch's Master, on finding your other half
. It's refreshing to see that I'm not the only one who wants something
more when it comes to relationships.