I will now be making my usual last-person-into-this-topic entrance. And by that, I mean totally disregarding the previous 8 3/4 pages and posting my own opinion.
I'm planning to have kids, but, thankfully, I have a minimum of 3 years until I have to worry about it. Having kids is supposedly the Holy Grail of parental happiness, but I'm starting to see that, like most adult things, it has been grossly overrated.
Lately, i've been noticing that whenever people are going to get married, they seem more concerned about making babies than actual love.
So, i'm kinda torn. On one hand, there's the always present married-couple-having-children expectation from society, but something inside tells me life would be much, much easier if I didn't have kids.
So, this whole post of mine is mostly just a decision to be indesicive.
What the hell, i'm only a Freshman, anyway. Why should I be thinking of it now?
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