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It is a hard decision for some poeple to make, but it is a decision.
For example, a person who has problems within the family is being abused a lot. the pain (both mental and physical) seems to be too much to bear. so they DECIDE to go and take alchohal and drugs to numb the pain.

Same thing with being gay. you can CHOOSE not to be. Yes Havoc, there may be hormones that make someone feel gay, but you can CHOOSE to work harder to resist the urge. Just like how people can resist the urge to whack off up in their room. Yes, I understand that God did put that hormone into men due to certain curcumstances. And I'm sure he has a reason. It may not be apparent to us at the time, but everything happens with reason. It may be something for the person, with the hormone in them, to work harder to get over and become stronger because of it.
Life is full of choices, some may not seem so blunt, but they are there. Almost everything in life is a decision. Even, and especially, religion. you may CHOOSE not to believe me, or may DECIDE that I have a point. Either way, you are choosing.

You just basically contradicted yourself though.

Becasue there is a homosexual urge behind homosexual actions, then why would God place those urges there? And don't say to test the gay ten percent of the world population. Why those selected peoples and no one else? To be bottled up and unhappy for your entire life? And don't say it's God's way either. Because the fate of having to know you're homosexual in an antigay society isn't something that can't just be lightly passed off with the explanation the lord works in mysterious ways.