[Slig_Cake]

How do you guys deal with it when you've been burned by someone you really loved?

I know it might seem hypocritical of things I was saying in the past, but my ex broke up with me last week. I normally wouldn't care because I can do well for myself, but she was just so special to me. And I keep thinking I did things wrong, but her friend just said , 'she thinks you're an awesome guy and she still likes you, but the feelings wern't as strong as her ex and she's got small feelings for someone else'.

And normally I'd be like wtf, but now I know what feelings are about, and there's a fine line between liking someone and loving them. I tried talking to her, I was stone cold begging for her to give me another chance, but it wasn't about that.

It's been only a week, but every minute every day I'm thinking about her, even when I'm pre occupied she's there in the back of my mind. And I didn't even realise what I had at the time I was with her. I could still love her just as much over anyone if she put on 100 kilos. There was nothing about her looks that I was attracted to, just her.

And dont mistake this for an 'emo' or 'suicidial' thread, I just want to get some thoughts on how others deal with that shit. I havn't been crying about it, but nothing gets me over her, when I went to a club and tried to have fun, got with a random even. But all my thoughts were still on her.