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Afraid I'll have to agree with the girls on this one.
I never believed in Soul mates either but I found mine AND I wasn't even looking.
Just for the record he lives 4,000 miles away in England and we managed to meet. When there is a person out there destined for you...you will find each other.
Call me crazy if you want but I believe in soul mates.
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Heh, well, as I think I said earlier in this thread, I think you have
more chance of finding them if you're not actively looking.
If you
are actively looking there's often the chance you'll either look so hard you don't see them (ever notice how often that happens with ordinary things too?
You're looking so hard for it and it's right in front of you!) or you might go for someone who isn't really suitable because you're looking so hard you just end up seeing what you want to see in someone. I'm probably not making sense, but gah, whatever...
I myself don't have a girlfriend as such, but there is someone, someone I "found without looking," we're just taking it slow.
But back to the main title of this topic, I think my belief about soulmates was pretty well summed up in Searex's words:
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Quote: Originally Posted by AquaticAmbi
When you find someone who you see yourself with forever and feel no need to "shop around" anymore, then you're set.
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I am inclined to agree. If you're perfectly content with the person you have, then there is absolutely no reason to look around for anyone else. That's what you would call a "soulmate," or whatever.
I've always thought that "soulmate" was kind of a cheesy word, though. |