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Actually from what I understand, children who've been molested often thought when it was happening that it was some kind of game - either that or they just didn't realise the gravity of the situation. It's only later on that they realise the seriousness of what happened and come to terms with it. It seems that society's imposed view of it being wrong is what brings the mental pain, rather than the actual act of it. On it's own it might be confusing for a child, but unless it's forced physically in a way that would frighten the child, it wouldn't have any immediate psychological impact. And as I said, it's only later on when that child becomes a teenager and begins to learn about these things that they realise what has taken place and how they should feel about it.
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You seem like you're talking from experience
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