Unfaithful 'wankage'?
Personally, I don't want this to turn into a 'wankage'

argument between women and men.
like Nate said, people aren't wired
not to reproduce. Once you hit puberty, the reproducing urge kicks in, and since you're below the legal age for 'reproducing', you've usually got to work off the tension once in awhile. At least thats how I see it.