Best thing about this subject is to keep an open mind, nobody is going to force their opinions down your throat. Being stoned is just like being drunk but 10 times better and without the hang-over
Although it does affect people differently, it's normal for it to just chill you out and make you hungry aswell
It's completely harmless and is in my books, a social event. Afaik nobody has ever died from taking it. Start off with your mates having a few joints then go into buckets, pipes or whatever, at the end of the day it's your choice, nobody thinks any less of you if you don't try it
Use and enjoy tbh