I had a friend who began fancying one of the friends in the group. She didn't want a relationship though, just a one night stand with him.
I told her directly that if she did pursue this, i would make it my aim to have her and the other friend exiled from the group.
Friends should NEVER do ANYTHING, other than kiss, with each other. Unless there are no feelings involved [which, my this instance, there was]. Have a f*ckbuddy by all means, but never have a f*ckbuddy who you fancy. Especially if it's a friend.
Things get complicated and bitter and eventually the whole group ends up being incinerated in a vat of supreme bitterness.
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